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Can I ask my boyfirend what they did together?

My boyfriend had sex with his 14 year old girlfriend when he was 19y.now he is 30y.my boyfriend told me ,he and that 14y girl had been lived together,can I ask him what they did together?he ask me(28y) to marry him,will our marriage life be a real enjoyment for him? Bcoz he had done all those things a married couple does, before with his girlfriend ,will it get hurt him if I ask what they did together?

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Answer #1

You shouldn’t date a man that would take advantage of a girl that much younger than him. That is (was) illegal, btw. Oh but I see that is already mentioned above. I know it’s not relevant NOW bc you are both of age, but it’s something to think about. Why couldn’t he find a girl his own age?

Answer #2
  • Okay So Your Boyfriend Had Sex With A 14Yr Old..Theres No Reason Or Excuse You Can’t Or Not Allowed To Ask That…Theres A Reason For Everything I Dont Understand Why You Would Want To Know If That’s The Past It’s The Future Now. You Can’t Go Back In Time But If Your Really Curious Just Ask If He Didn’t Do Nothing Wrong. He Should Say It Without Getting Mad Or Upset..
Answer #3

well, what he did at the time was illegal and he could have been charged with rape and phedopillia wether she agreed to the sex of not because shes under the legal age of consent and hes over it so you should be free to ask him any questions you have about the situation if they had sex and lived togetehre though thats pretty much all you need to know they were probably just havings sex a lot and doing normal couple things like arguring

Answer #4

Hey hun.

Okay no it wouldnt hurt him if you ask. And if he wants 2 marry you then it means he loves u (: so of course he wuldnt get bored of doing things wit you just because hes done it all before. Just be creative and show him a good time. No1 can get bored of the person they love (: Btw I totally understand I was digussed when my boyfriend said he wasnt a virgin I felt so boring 2 him after. But he just told me that even a kiss means more 2 him wit me because its me<3 Xoxo byeee

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