Is it morally wrong to ask my boyfriend to marry me?

We have now been dating for 3 years and we own our own condo together. I love him very very much, we do everything together and enjoy all the same things. We have talked many times about it and that it is going to happen and we have planned somethings out for fun but I don’t want to wait any longer, I would like to have a long engagment, nothing snappy and rushed. Is asking him to marry me morally wrong? I just don’t know how to go about proposing to him? Any ideas or suggestions? Also, do I get a ring??

Answer #1

Go for it sweetie! It is not morally wrong! We are in a more modernized society, and you are a woman that know what she wants. I’d plan something romantic - a dinner cruise, candle lit dinner, etc. and ask him. I honestly think he’ll appreciate it. The ring is a nice touch - very sweet. Good luck!

Answer #2

I asked my boyfriend to marry me. We were seeing each other for i and a half years. I told him a Christmas card that I was going to marry him someday and how muched I loved him. It didn’t take him long to dump me, I scared him off very fast.

Answer #3

I think its cute. How does he feel about marriage? Is he Ready? Have you ever mentioned Woman proposing to Guys? I always was scared a guy would think it was weird=/ But Some guys arnt like that=]

I dont think Its morally Wrong. I dont think It should Matter. If Two people love each other, Then it shouldnt matter who asks And,Idunno about the whole ring thing.. I dont think so..

Answer #4

Its leap year next year so ask him on valentines day, its the day for women to ask men to marry them.. go for it.

good luck

Answer #5

Thanks for all your advice, I am gonna think on and plan it out!

Answer #6

i agree go 4 it

Answer #7

dutch, wow? I would of married you.

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