Mum and I haven't been getting along

My mum and I havnt been getting along for what it feels like forever and I understand I am only 15 but I make some descisions by myself regardless and it feels like she strying to control me. Her and I cant talk openly anymore. Shes told me she doesnt like my boyfriend and he doesnt seem like a good boy friend but I knoe different. I’ve had to grow up really fast with her and I’ve had to be another mom to my sister. Im having maybe some baby troubles but I absoloutly cannot talk to her about it with out her criticizing me! Opinions??

Answer #1

ok I was in saym position my mum don’t like my b.f because I didnt like hers I ferused 2 live with him and his 2 children

1 reson: his son was a purv and wud walk in on me getting unchanged even thou I told evry1 I was going 2 get changed cowisadanse? I don’t think so 2 reson: Dauter did not like me no matter how I tred her bein my age took her round with my friends she still maneged 2 rite nasty notes and slag me of 2 her brover 3 reson: h8ed the man he was like mental (turns owt he was litraly mental) he was arrested 4 trying 2 poision my mum and he was engaged 2 her and her next of kin with a lot of money 2 gain there was nuthin 2 loose as his bisness as a pest extermanater was going bust ( hense the fact poision was in the house)…

ny way so me and mum fell owt and I sed if she was going 2 marrie him I wud not live with them. so I moved owt and it wasnt long before she got really ill so my dad made me move back in 2 look after her. and I convinsed her 2 leave him witch she did.

she held it aggents me 4 months she cudnt see what that man had done 2 her I had a long turm b.f she dessided he wasnt good enough I egnored her off course and rebeled aggenst evrything she said.

I started living in my room or at my b.fs or at my dads nevr talkin 2 my mum.

but my older sis ho lived down south had a babie so we all travled down in a car 2 say them. 4 hourse in a car we had 2 talk. we argued, shouted, skreamed but I got my point across and she got hers.

we havnt got a purfect relationship we never will but we understand eachover more now and my mum and dad got back 2gever witch was a bounuse 4 us all :) yeww c tat bad time mad us strong.

I never told ny 1 when this was going on apart from all tat we involved. ( well told people now if they read this) but the point I am trying 2 make is it could b a hell of a lot worse tan it is. ok so your mum loves yeww no matter what yeww think she only tryes 2 help so yeww do not make the misstakes she mite of in the past. main thing 2 do is sitt her down if yeww showt then yeww showt but try not 2. just explane its your lyf and you will make mistakes all the tym all yeww need from her is someone ho will not judge yeww 4 makin them.

hopfully she will understand if not your 15 not long before your an adult and can do what yeww like. but remember yeww must respect your mum because yeww only ever get 1.

gd luck

x

Answer #2

like ethmer has said, try opening up to your mom and make an attempt to talk over the situation with her. tell her your point of views and feelings, than listen to hers… you just might understand her point of view and take it into consideration!! your mom is suppose to be there for you and support you, not emotionally bring you down… I understand that there may be times where you dissagre and have your fights… but all you honestly have to do is to talk it out and tell her how you felt, and say sorry for anything that you might have done wrong, and prove to her that your’re growing up!!

hope that helped =)

Answer #3

I would make a serious attempt to open up communication lines with your mother. It isn’t unusual for a teenage daughter to have problems with her mother. The solution is for the daughter or the mother to make an attempt to start communicating. It isn’t necessarily an easy task but it is one that can be very fruitful giving you both positive benefits for the rest of your life.

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