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brothers WAYYY to strict when it comes to guys.

im 13! and he gets soo mad when I even hug a guy!

so I cant hug, date guysss! I do it behind his back and I don’t want thatt.

if I sit down with him and talk about it. hell kill me and snitch. WHY DOESNT he just let me dateee! : ( or atleast just let me hugg them like wth.

same thing with my parentsss.

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Answer #1

He knows what guys are about.You must be thankful to have a brother like that.If he don’t want to talk then write him a letter and explain to him how you feel about him being so protective.

Answer #2

You’re just 13.

Your family is just worried, you could respect their wishes and you could try to earn their trust before they allow you to date someone.

Answer #3

instead of one on one dating, go out with a group of friends, who your parents know and approve of. one of those friends being your boyfriend. this will help your parents see it as a group of friends not an “oh my gosh my little baby’s dating” type of thing. same thing for your brother. don’t worry one day you will be able to date one on one, but for now isn’t it more fun with friends anyways?

Answer #4

Your family doesn’t let you date because you’re 13-years-old, kids shouldn’t be dating. You should be more focused on other things like; sports, hobbies, your grades, hanging out with friends, etc. you’re way too young to be getting caught up in boys. No 13-year-old is mature enough to handle dating.

A hug can lead to many things in a matter of seconds, you don’t understand till it actually happens my dear. I know “I’d push him away, I’d say no, etc” no, it’s not always like that.

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