How can I say yes when a guy I really really like asks me out and somehow my 3 older brothers WILL find out and all hell will break loose!?

I’ll describe my brothers so you know what I’m dealing with. My oldest brother (10yrs older) doesn’t mind much about me liking a guy but still I would NEVER tell him if I did because he would tease me a little (least of my problems). My 2nd oldest brother (8yrs older) MARINE! (yeah that’s not at all intimidating to guys) wants me to wear a burka all the time also got concerned when I got a hair straightener, told my mom I shouldn’t be fixing my hair. And my 3rd brother (4yrs older) still lives at home, jumps at the sound of my phone getting a message, at a boys name, at me wearing white pants, calls me a tramp and such as a “joke” which Ive never found funny! That’s my brothers for you. And I’ll add I don’t dare wear make up or think about telling them of any sort of guy I like but being dishonest would not work! I’m also 14 years old.

Answer #1

if you really like the guy then you wouldnt care about what everyone else thinks. I know what its like to date someone and your bros dont like it/

Answer #2

Must be hard being a Muslim and living in a Western country where your brothers are still thinking females needs to cover themselves completely and calls you a tramp for wearing white pants, even if it is only a joke, it is still very crude. Anyway, it sounds like the boy you like will have issues with your three brothers and I’m surprised any boy for that matter will even want to ask you out knowing what they have to put up with, that is, your three dominating brothers and their old fashion attitude. If I was the guy I would run a mile from you. Anyway, depending on how serious and strict your family is I suggest having a chat with your mother and see if you can date this boy. I’m not sure if your family is into honour-killing but I have read and listen to News broadcast about some families being so strict they are willing to kill their daughters for even dare date someone so be careful.

Answer #3

They will just have to get used to it. If u like the guy then don’t worry bout what they think. If your guy is a stand up guy he will be respectful and hopefully your brothers see that

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