Break up affiare

I think it can be partially because of desparation on at least one party’s part…they put ALL into the act that they held back on before…At least when I was the one doing the breaking up.

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well 90% of time I think about getting laid … but thats before my current g.f I was just asking about the breakup sex because I had it about 5 times & they were the best so im asking if all people felt the same way or not

I think that’s a myth - sorry. I’ve hooked up with ex’s before after we broke up - all it did was cause more drama, pain, and confusion to the breakup. When you breakup, that should be it. You should not still be sleeping with the person or talking to them.

I too think it’s a myth. Maybe it’s simply because you have nothing to lose :P! I find the best sex to be that which you share with someone you care about. Like mandyloo said, you may wish to work on your sexual communication during relationships. If you improve on that and other facets of your in-relationship sexual behaviour then there is no reason the sex should not feel just as good (if not better) than post-relationship (break-up) sex…

You being in college has nothing to do with that - the average male thinks about sex 90 percent of the time anyways.

It may have been the best for you - but what happens when you have breakup sex is one of the people involved get’s left with more hurt feelings, more confusion about the breakup, and more unknowing about what is actually happening between the two of them.

Also, if that’s the only way that you have the “best” sex, then maybe you should think about that more, and put a little more effort into the sexual part of the relationship while you are still together.

What does that have to do with anything?

well … im in college :)