How to cope with my boyfriend in jail for rape?

run, run, run, there are lots of guys out there, don’t settle for one in jail for rape.

just drop it if he raped a girl what do you think he is using you for

Your beautiful.You can do better…and it could be you one day…men who rape women generally dont stop there

well my boyfriend just got locked up for second degree rape…it wasnt an actual rape tho. he was 18 and the girl was less than 15 and even tho she agreed to have sex they still charge it for rapecus she wasnt at the “appropriate” age to consent the sexual action or w.e. anyways…for that he’s getting locked up for a 1yr and 6months. I dont know if your case would be the same tho. I plan on waiting for my boyfriend. he tries to call me anytime he can and I keep getting updated with his brother and as soon as he gets permanently transfered to a jail I’ll have his address to keep writing him. I dont know how your relationship with your boyfriend is but if you guys really love each other and you think he’s worth it…then wait.

From one of your previous questions about you boyfriend, I have to wonder about his attitudes towards girls. You were on your period, and he was trying to get in your pants, and you kept telling him no, but he wouldnt take no for an answer, so you just let him. That is total disrespect towards you, and you did nothing about it. From what Im getting, he is just using you.

They can do a DNA, and find out if in fact he had sex with her. Its his word against hers until theres evidence, but I dont think I would be so quick to dismiss what happened. What reason would this girl have to accuse him of raping her? Maybe your boyfriend is lying. If he did push himself on her, do you honestly think hes going to admit it? It’ll all come out in court.

Dear uczbabiigiirl, In all likely hood he was charge because his DNA was a match and she had identified him as her rapist. Ask yourself is this someone you want to be with? Why don’t you know how long his sentence is? You obviously haven’t been in contact with is family, you say you would wait for him but did you not speak of his situation with him. You didn’t find any of this out till he was charged and sent away? I think in all reality you and he aren’t very close and you are not crying because there is really isn’t a strong connection. It’s time to wake up and move on. I doubt you’ll find many other girlfriends waiting for their boyfriends in this situation. Sue…good luck

I would suggest constantly visiting him and talk it out with him on what the next relationship is going to lead to as of right now.. I would make sure you remember communication is the key, I know it is hard to communicate with someone who is incarserated[sp] lol. but anyways, good luck. :]