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What should I do about my boyfriend being in jail?

my boyfriend is in jail and he got sentenced to almost three years…ouch! Although we have a wierd situation for a relationship I love him with all my heart. We only met on april 25 and it was totally love at first sight..most people dont believe and I didnt either until may first. We spent every hour of those 5days getting to know each other. I fell in love so hard! So june 4..two days before his bday he gets locked up..immediatly crushed by this I’ve found myself in thee shitiest situation. I know I LOVE HIM with all my heart, but how much can one take? Almost 3yrs to wait for a guy uve only know a few months is intense. He unfortunatly is a meth head and a cronic stealer so theres a lot of what if’s in my mind. I mean what if he gets out and goes straight back to that shit. Now lets be honest we all know that they get locked up swear they’ll nvr do it again and 6months later they are straight back to it. I hope he doesnt do that to me. Any advice on what I should do???

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Answer #1

Personally I think you should find someone who has a brighter future - face it, this guy is probably never going to do anything with his life. He’s clearly making bad choices and being in this position is going to effect him for the rest of his life. Why on earth would you want to be with a meth head in the first place? You need higher standards hunny.

Answer #2

my relationship situation is almost identical except we met in january and its weird because his bday is june 6 too but anyway. if you truly love him then youll wait for him. I tried talking to another guy and all I could think of was my boyfriend. he calls me everyday and I have pics of us on my ipod. you take it day by day but you get through it. if you wanna talk just funmail me. if not … good luck<3

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