Was my boyfriend just playing around when he hit me today?

dont call him, just text him and ask him if he meant to slap you, if he did you cant let him get away with it, if he didnt really mean it, just tell him you dont like it and he shouldnt do it again

lol tell on “him” not me XD

In the heat of an argument you pushed him and he slapped you.

I am concerned that your verbal altercation lead to a physical one. Every relationship has some tension and arguments. Being able to “fight nice” even when your partner is making you crazy is essential for any long term relationship.

You should apologize for pushing your BF regardless of him apologizing for slapping you.

Break up with him cuz a real man doesnt do that regardless of what you did.

No guy should ever hit a girl playing or being real. Thats not a man what so ever even if it was your fault(just saying.) Play hitting turns into real hitting just say. You should talk to him in person dont text,email talk in person.

Look back… How did he act after he realized he slapped you? If he is ashamed, and begs your forgiveness then give him a chance. If he tells you he had a right to “put you in your place” or anything related, then cut him loose or expect to be slapped (or worse) in the future.

Agreed … you were both wrong.

Oh please, what exactly is every abuser on this planet going to do after an altercation? They’re going to be honestly sorry and it will obviously never happen again. Leave. Guys who hit once are going to hit again. No one is playing around when they smack someone else. And you know it, or you wouldn’t be asking the question

Yeah I noticed I was wrong & apologized, thank you

Stay away….this just flashes red lights! Your so young, you have a lifetime of possibilities ahead of you! Do not get stuck with someone now who does not respect you!

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From someone who is going through the same leave now whilst you can. Don’t ring him or go to see him. Leave him. As much as it may hurt it will only cause you pain further down the line when you realise you should of left whilst you had the chance. Maybe apologise for pushing him and say you don’t know what came over you and say but I think I need to be on my own and your sorry and possibly still be friends. He will only do it again and it WILL get worse!!! Trust me!!! Leave now while you can. And if he tries to do anything else, tell someone, a parent/guardian/friend/ or even the police. X