My friend the hunter, my boyfriend the prey

so I’m having trust/insecurity issues. XYZ is goregous and single. XZY had a tendency to make a big deal about how ABC’s boyfriend always commented about how he liked/played with XZY’s hair and how XZY is before ABC on his top 8. my peeve about this is that she never did anything to stop encouraging it. if anythig she was kid of bragging. I’m a little afriad she may want to encourage something with my boyfriend as well and he might be stupid enough to go for it. only just subtly in a “ you want me but you can’t have me kind of way. “ so yeah I’m jealous of her, a bit. I think this because she’s always hovering around me when my boyfriend is around. trying to crack jokes, play hitting him, and stuff.

should I tell him how I feel, tell her how I feel, keep it to myself, other?

I’m afraid that if I tell him it will only make her more attractive because she off limits. I’m too petty to let her know that I’m jealous. I’m dkjfhdsiuhrfnkldfhdf if I keep it to myself. other…you tell me, but please don’t tell me that if he/she were a true boyfriend/friend then they would not do that. the truth is people will have feelings and thoughts that they may not want but have anyway.

Answer #1

If you really trust your boyfriend you know he likes you and hes all yours so dont worry. if things start to get out of control you should tell him how you feel.

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