Do you think he really loves me?

So, I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little less than a year. I love to him death. I know he really cares about me, but sometimes he doesn’t show it, I don’t know what to say to him to have him show it a little more. Also, we have sex a lot. Sometimes I feel used, but he always reassures me he’s not and he loves me. I’m just confused sometimes. I always question myself to see if he really loves me. Do you think he does?

Answer #1

If you dont feel he truly loves you, he probably doesnt. Sex isnt proof that someone loves you. Sex proves nothing!! Boys can have sex with many different girls, without being the least bit serious about them. People demonstrate love by being there for each other, solving problems together, sharing hard times as well as good times, helping each other grow, and by being patient with each other. Having sex as a teenager is like pretending to be married when you’re not. It may seem fulfilling at the time, but the dishonesty and lack of real maturity usually bears bitter fruits sooner or later. Its the real experience of millions of teenagers and former teenagers who “knew” & thought they were “in love”. My advice is to stop having sex, and see how his demeanor is. Dating isnt suppose to be about making sex an important part of a relationship. Dont think that having sex in your relationship is going to lead to a lasting love during the dating process!

Here is just a bit of info I dug up>>Once one engages in premarital sex as a teen, one begins to have relationship problems. “Sex hinders communication. Sex is often the easy way out to those who have never learned to communicate. In most teen relationships, sex becomes the focus, and other aspects of the relationship have no chance to develop, like a friendship. Relationships that are solely based on sex are troublesome. In order to have a good relationship a person needs to develop a sincere friendship with his or her partner. “Friendship lays the foundation for love to blossom. By obeying God’s plan to wait for sex, a couple can discover other ways to communicate that will do much in building a healthy relationship. Sexual intercourse is not the great cure all for all problems one encounters in a relationship.

Answer #2

Hii… I had the same problem with my boyfriend… boys are like that.. they dont like showing their emotions… the only way they think is possible is during sex lol! I got to the point when I told him how I felt, you should to because its important to communicate in a relationship! Well I cant really say if he loves you or not because im not in your relationship to see it for myself. think about the things that you may not notice hes doing for you..is there anything at all that he does that makes you feel special?

Make sure you tell him how you feel though because you will keep feeling like this and it will make you feel unhappy unless its sorted!

Hoped this helped!

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