Friends & boys = bad mix. What do I do?

I really don’t have a clue whats going on in my head atm. I really like my boy mate. My friend thinks he likes me too. Sometimes I get the vibe he does and othertimes it feels like he hates me. I don’t have a clue where I stand with him. Another problem is a really close friend of mine likes him too. I think she likes him more than I do. She’s already in a relationship with someone but, she thinks if my boy mate liked her too she’d split up with her current boyfriend. Her current relationship is making her unhappy and I really care about her and want things to work out for her. I haven’t told her about my feelings for him. She regularly talks to me about him and I keep telling her to keep trying with him but it’s killing me the thought of them getting together. He confided in me he doesn’t like her like that. I told her but I don’t think she’s going to give up. I know I’m being a really bad friend and a horriable person. I’m not sure what to do about the whole thing…is there anything I can do?

Thanks for reading. I’d really appreciate your help.

Become an Expert →

Answer #1

look, no point in working yourself up over something that you might not even have to worry about. find out if he likes you fore sure, because if he doesn’t then you have no problem. And if he does, talk to your friend about it. if she is a good friend she will understand. especially if she allready has a boyfriend, that would be just plain selfish of her. So find out if he likes ya and then talk to your friend abou it

More Like This

How to make my boy friend feel bad for treating me bad? - 1 Answers
My boyfriend treats me like im nothing.But I really love him && when im really close to just saying I cant do this anymore.He...
Am I being a bad friend for talking to my best friend's crush? - 2 Answers
Well I have a close friend, and she is in 'love' with this boy. I highly doubt it, because they're not going out, they NEVER ...
How do I get my boy friend to kiss me? - 2 Answers
How do I get my boyfriend to kiss me when I see him again at the end of the month
Have any of you ever said something bad behind your friends back? - 3 Answers
has any of you ever say something bad about your friends back ,y? how did you feel? did she/he know ? are still friend ?
What if I like two boys who are best friends? - 1 Answers
What do I do if there are two boys you reallly like, who mean a lot to you and it just so happends they are best friends (wer...
x boy friend going out with my best friend - 4 Answers
what should I do if my x boy friend is going out with my friend and shes my best friend.
What if my friends are talking bad about me? - 3 Answers
What should i do if my friends that i LOVE very much!....are talking bad about me?
There is this boy that I like but I only want him to be my friend. - 1 Answers
Ok so there is this boy that I like but I only want him to be my friend...well we already are friends but I want to be like h...
Soulja boy or american boy - 1 Answers
Whats better soulja boy or american boy
How do I get my boy friend to tell me the truth? - 2 Answers
I know its something going on with my boyfriend but I just dont understand why he wont open up and tell me helllp

Friends & boys = bad mix. What do I do?

Love & Relationships

Bad Bad Girl

Tinder Dating App

Online Chat US

Amanda Jane Jones Blog

Victoria Milan