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Boyfriend, baby, parent drama
Okay I’m seventeen and live with my parents because I can’t legally move out yet obviously. I just found out about a week ago that I’m pregnant with my boifriends baby. He’s nineteen and my parents absolutely hate him. They dont know that im still seeing him either they thought I stopped when they told me not to about 3- 4 months ago. But we’re in love and we cant bear to be apart. Now that im pregnant I’m eventually obviously going to have to tell them but what im afraid of is them never letting me see him again. I guess my question is can they legally keep me from him if im pregnant with his baby since im still seventeen. I know they cant keep the baby away from him once its born but can they still seperate us?
ok well I dont know where you live, but in a lot of states the age of consent is 16. If this is the age of consent for your state, you and your boyfriend didn’t break the law…first off, your parents can’t tell you who you can and can’t see. Especially since your 17, I mean you can drive( ?) So you pretty much have freedom. The only thing your parents could do is get a restraining order against your boyfriend, but there is a catch. Your parents would have to prove to the judge that he is endangering you in some way, they can;t tell the judge they don’t like him, becuase that isn’t a legit excuse. The judge will throw the case out if your parents try to do that. However, I dont know what the judge will say about the baby. Im pretty sure the judge will not grant a restraining order aganist your boyfriend because you are pregnant with his baby-synpathy. So what I suggest you do is look up online what your states age of consent is, and if your not confident with the online answer, call a local police station and ask what it is- just to make sure your boyfriend can’t be charged with statutory rape. O and btw, your parents can’t charge statutory rape against your boyfriend, the court decides that. If you know any one in the legal field askk them what the procedure is for a restrainin order against a boyfriend if the girlfriend is pregnant.. Do your legal research ASAP and then confront your parents about the baby… Good Luck!! And if you really want to move out, you would have to get emacipated, or have your parents consent. In some states since the age of consent is 16, a person isn’t suppose to move out w\o parental consent, but if you move out w\o parental consent, you can be cahrged as a runaway, but all you have to do is contact the police and tell them you are OK. The police will not force you to go back home if you are OK and over the consent age… Well I hope this helped- but get your research done asap!
I won’t be 18 till june next year
oh dear… girl you are in a pickle…
there is this law… that forbids people over the age of 18 and under the age of 18 from having sex… you guys broke the law… I think since you are still a minor so your parents still have control… im so sorry… however.. by law it does say when you are 17 you can move out if you have your parents permission.. ask… you might get lucky… ill be praying for you.. message me so we can talk..
im always here to talk =]
A lot of people say that parents are the boss. Actually they aren’t. Their just there to help you decide and teach you the right way because they care. It is true what they said, once you are eighteen, you can choose what you want. If you love him, you should stay, if you don’t think it’s right to see him again, then maybe you should stop. Love is an emotion that is your choice. No one can change what you feel inside. Go for what you want, it’s not always your parents decision.
how long till your 18? id just wait it out, don’t really argue…tell them your feelings and your thoughts and tell them how yall feel bout each other and if they still don’t accept it then just…kinda wait it out. when you turn 18 skrew them. just go live with him and care for the baby. thats all you need to care about is the baby and your relationship, not what your parents think. <3
when do you turn 18?
once you are 18. its all up to you. legally anyways.
when your 18 your life is in your hands, but when you think about it they have already stopped you seeing him but you havent so what more can they do, you have your own mind, its happened now and they cant change that, they are just going to have to go along with your decisions. remember, depsite your age they are your decisions and nobody can make you do anything, they just have an opinion on what you do.
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