Should I do it even if I don't want to?

Bad Reasons for sex too soon: · A need for sex. · You want the person to love you. · Social pressure to perform. · Nothing more to talk about. · Boredom. · A curiosity to find out if there’s any chemistry. · You want to make someone else jealous. · To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner. · You’re challenging a dare. · An attempt to solidify the relationship.

5 Very Good Reasons to NOT Have Sex You don’t feel ready. You’re too scared to try it. You just don’t want to do it. You feel pressured by peers or your partner. *You feel like you are being asked to prove your feelings by having sex

13 year olds don’t understand that in order for sex to be a good thing, you need two people who are mature enough to really love and trust each other. When you don’t have that, sex is bad and leaves the girl feeling like she’s been used.

It is also important to understand all the good things and bad things that can result from having sex.

For guys see sex as totally physical and don’t get their emotions involved. They set a timeline, or they pressure the girl for sex.The thing is, by doing that, your boyfriend isn’t treating you like a person. He’s just saying, he needs/wants to have sex with “his girlfriend”. But you’re not just “the girlfriend” - you are your own person, with your own feelings and needs and comfort zone.

Take a deep breath and say these words: “No, I don’t want to have sex”.

Don’t let him talk you out of what you know is right. If you make out with someone, no matter how far you go, it does NOT mean that you have to go all the way.

Don’t be embarrassed or think you will sound immature by saying no to sex. Choosing not to have sex is VERY mature. It would be immature to be pressured into something you don’t want!

If he tells you, “If you loved me you’d do it”, come back at him with, “If you loved me you’d wait”. Sex is NOT the only way to show your love for another person. If he loves you, he will wait forever if needed.

Remember, having sex is a big deal and not having sex is perfectly normal. SEX VS. LOVE “If you love me, you’ll have sex with me.”

“I love you, I just want to show you how I feel.”

“If we love each other, there’s nothing wrong with it.”

“Sex is natural.”

^^At one time or another, most girls hear some version of one of those lines. But guess what? None of them mean you have to have sex with someone - even if you are truly, madly, deeply in love with that person!

Love and sex are NOT the same thing. Love is an emotion or a feeling. There is no one definition of love because the word “love” can mean many different things to many different people.

If he breaks up with you because you didnt give him what he wanted, then it wasnt you he really wanted!