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Bisexual confusion?

I like girls and guys . So that makes me bisexual . Butt ok I like girls more than guyss btt havent went out with any and went with plenty guys . Butt I doo love girls . Soo idkk am I weird?

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Answer #1

You are not weird in the least. I understand what you’re going through. I’ve gone through the same thing, and when I was around 15, I did like girls more. I felt safer with them, mostly because of bad experiences with guys. I was more attracted to girls physically, ect.

Just go with what you feel, it’s strange because to most being bisexual/gay/lesbian isn’t normal..and being straight is. It is a good idea to go on dates with girls as well. See how it is, see how you act, how you feel… It’s good to experiment.

I know it’s confusing, but in time you’ll figure out what you really want, and what’s right for you. But don’t try to rush it..or it’ll make things worse. It’s important for you to remember that there’s nothing wrong with you, and it’s your normal. If you’re happy, that’s what matters most.

Hope I helped, and you can funmail me if you have any other questions.

Take care

Answer #2

no your not weird at all. some people are just made that way. find a friend who will support you. also you might want to try experimenting by going on dates with guys and girls to definantly make up your mind about what sex you like

Answer #3

It only seems weird now because, chances are, you’ve been around the same people most of your life and haven’t seen too many who can relate to you. It’s perfectly normal to be gay or bi, but it’s not as common as being straight, and being surrounded by so many straights, you’re probably feeling a little reluctant to explore your sexuality.

Once you get a little older, go to college, live in a few different places, move around the country and find out who you are, you’ll come in contact with plenty of people who you will feel comfortable opening up to. You aren’t weird, but you might have to wait a couple more years to feel at ease.

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