bi, what to do?

Um ty -people figure out their oreintation when they are about 13 years old…

I say dont tell them but later if you get in a relationship with a girl and it gets serious and you feel you must tell them then if they love you they will get overit and learn to except you and everything that makes you you

it best you tell them 1 thay should love you no matter what! ^^ 2 cause if they find out on there own (which thay will) it will a lot more painful :( … good luck ^_^’

first off dont be ashamed, ebarassed, or feel like you have to hide your feelings being bisexual doesnt make you any less human you have just as many rights as everyone else and are entitles to love whoevere you love, just like anyone else if your parents really do lovce you they should understand this and respect your decisions regardless of your sexuality if ythere religiouse hoevere theyve probably been brainwashed into thinking what your doing is wrong its up to you to tell them if you want them to know and want them to accept it, tell them and stand up for yourself say its who you are and if they love you, they should respect that

I told my mum that I was bi about 4 years ago (I am actually gay but thought this would take a little easier!), that was when I started a serious relationship with a girl. I had one previous which I kept secret and we broke up over it, and I dont just regret that, I hate the fact that I was lying to my mum and hiding it. I was scared of what my family would think. I am so close to my mum so I decided to tell her about this one. 4yrs on and I am married to my girl and my family couldn’t be happier! My dad and brother used to make awful comments about gays, but it’s all just a front. They love me and my wife and they don’t make comments anymore. They were never homophobic, it’s all just a front and keeping up apperances!

It’s totally down to you whether you tell your family or not. I didn’t think it was necassary until I was in a serious relationship - although my mum knew some of my friends were gay, she even had a gay friend herself. I knew she would be ok, but the rest of family was what I was really scared about. I bit the bullet and all good now. It might be worth waiting for a bit, maybe until you are 100% sure - until you are in a relationship.

Good luck & I am here if you ever need to chat x