What should I do, my bf won't really talk to me?

He would rather play with his games rather then text me or call me, he knows that he won’t be able to talk to me throughout theday cuz of practice n work. We would even go a day or 3 without talking to eachother. Should I leave him and find a better one??

Answer #1

just give him some space. maybe he is going through a rough time or something and its not your fault. he might need to work through something on his own for a while. or, you could confront him about it. ask him if you can help him if he’s annoyed or irritated or something like that. and if he is, be there for him. i hope this helped!

Answer #2

I’m not sure what’s really the problem here, if you’re the one thats working then this job of yours is distancing the two of you apart and all that time apart adds up. He might not feel that close emotional connection he had with you from the beginning. Seeing as though he’s only playing his games, I think that he really just got tired of waiting for you. If either one of you is the one that works and doesn’t do their part in the relationship then it’s all going to waste.

I think the most probable solution is to work out a schedule, seeing as though you have to work and this can interfere with the time you guys want to see each other. if you really feel like this relationship won’t go any further then I guess the best option would be to break up. Other then that, you two can work out a time in the day where you can see each other and spend time with each other, relationships call for compromises, obviously. If he doesn’t want to compromise then I suppose that adds another point for you to break up with him. Good luck.

Answer #3

You’re never going to make him talk to you. If you’re a person who wants to talk everyday, then I’d say yes…look for someone more compatable.

Answer #4

Maybe something happened in the family and he doesnt know how to deal with it so he’s just taking it nice and slow not speaking for awhile. just give him so space he will come around to telling you if something is up in the family, wrong with him, or something wrong or something whats to fix in the relationship who knows maybe he wants to propose hehe

Answer #5

Dump him

Answer #6

I agree =)

Answer #7

join the crowd ever girl has tht problem the guys just wont get there heads out of their asses.

Answer #8

He probably doesn’t know women need lots of attention and talk while men are more contemplative, thinking type. So it could be just a problem of communication. What do you think to talk this out with him, without blaming eah other, and just explain what you feel when he does certain things? Or ask him how could you two learn to communicate with each other?

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