ex bf broke up with me for his baby mother, how do i deal?

We’ve been dating for 4 months, which is also my longest relationship. But we used to be on and off because of his baby mother. We remained as friends and we kept in touch. He also still used to tell me he loves me . But then one day on. Facebook he commented on my status and said he think that I should delete his number b/c he was engaged. But just that previous week he wanted to have sex with me. Idk what to do. I miss him so much. I need some tips, suggestions, whatever else… help me!!!

Answer #1

Just because this has been your longest relationship doesn’t mean that it’s worth keeping. He does not love you, he is using you. He is treating you like an object. You need to move on, this guy is not worth it. He already told you that he is engaged. Just leave him alone, he has a family. You deserve much better than him.

Answer #2

sounds like he was using you…. if he loved you he would wanna b with you he dosent seem worth it.. like just try to focus on yourself and keep yourself busy so \you dont think of him as much

Answer #3

Thank you for the advice!

Answer #4

Thanks for the advice!

Answer #5

Yea :/ he was using you, his aim? Probably, most positively sex. Forget about him, you deserve better. It might be hard, but time will pass and you will forget.

Answer #6

Forget about him, I know it sucks but it sounds like he was using you. And he went to be with his baby mother, baby’s need around the clock special care, as much as it may hurt, I think it’s great he went to be with her, whether or not he supports the baby is their business. Since he has a child, and he’s engaged he is not the one for you. Don’t feel too bad, you’ll find someone much better that loves you and wants you for you and not just for sex.

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