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I miss my old bestfriend? :( Need advice?

I really need some advice. Me and this girl were friends for 5 years and we fell out with each other over some game. We were fighting on Facebook and she called me something horrible that she later said she didn’t mean (i don’t wanna say it) and I told her it was truly over after that, she tried texing me and saying that she’s sorry, but I ignored it because I was really mad at the time. This fight actually happened like 1 and a half years ago and I know that sounds crazy, but I always think about her. I keep thinking its to late to save our friendship. I miss her like crazy and sometimes I cry myself to sleep because I miss her so much. Ive been thinking of texting her saying how much Im sorry and seeing what she says but I’m to scared in-case she says we still cant be friends, and I don’t know how I would be able to handle that. I know i will end up crying and stuff so im not sure what to do. What would you do in my situation? What should I text her? Please help :(

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Answer #1

Im sorry to hear about that. No matter how hard it may be, i think you should text her telling her all about how you feel. Let her know how much you miss her and how sorry you are. Its never too late to save a friendship and i think the best thing to do right now is to at least try. Just send her a text and be honest about everything. Tell her you were mad at her for what she did at that time but that your friendship means more. At least you’ll know you tried and im sure she’ll understand. :) try.

Answer #2

I must agree with Ayushi. Yes, you had some crazy fight, but that is the past. It’s never too late to forgive someone and make up.

The best advice I can give is to contact this girl and just start a conversation. It can be about anything, even how some year and a half ago, you were acting childish. If she doesn’t want to be friends, well, then there’s nothing you can really do. We can’t force anyone to like us, it just doesn’t work that way.

Answer #3

From your words, i find that you still treat her as friend. No matter what happened, things will finally go by. So you should text her, this small step will make big difference, or may be she is waiting for you.

Answer #4

Okay, look at it this way. Would you rather not text her and have absolutely 0% chance of rekindling the friendship or would you rather text her and have a chance at getting her back as a friend? I say it’s worth it to text her. Just say “Hey, how have you been? It’s been a really long time and I can honestly say that what’s in the past is in the past and I’m 100% over it.” or something like that. I’m sure she would be stoked to hear back from you. All you can do is try. If she doesn’t want to text back, then that’s her own problem.

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