is it bad to have changed?

last summer my bf and i got inthe hugest argument, we didnt speak for about a month. one day he came to my house and apologized. but the point is that after that day i stopped being basicaly a push over and changed. now, to him i’m like this strong bionic kinda person. he feels that we traded places, i dont completely disagree with him, but i also think that it was neccessary. what do you guys think? did i make the right choice?

Answer #1

Of course not. It’s a good kind of change and since you think it was necessary it’s not a bad thing. Life is about learning and discovering who you are and that to me is a positive change you went through. You’re a more stronger person now. Nothing wrong with that! You changed for the better most likely

Answer #2

I think that it was a good change, their is nothing wrong with standing up for yourself so you don’t get pushed around. Everyone changes at some point in life, wether it be a choice they made themselves or one that just happened.

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