Baby too early

Charge your father? Seek help. Tell your mom? Tell someone. That is wrong, and he can be put away for along time for that. Go to a councelor. Talk to someone!

There’s no gaurentees that if you drink or take a pill that you’re baby will die. It’s alive, and what you’re thinking is worse than having an abortion. An abortion would be painless, and worth it in the long run. I’ve had a few friend’s and family members who have had an abortion (some more than once) think about it. Go to a woman’s clinic. (They’re everywhere) and ask one of the ladies there for some advice.

Good luck girl, and I’m sorry that this has happened to you.

Find a family who is unable to conceive and set the bab up for adoption, don’t just give up, you were raped, dont that show weekness or get to you, you are in an amazing place and situation where you can make someone else happy and that solves two problems, your too young to care for the baby, and they are unable to conceive, give the baby a real home and loving parents, you are responsible for this babies life for 9months, care for it while you make later arrangements. This baby doesn’t deserve to die because you were raped, I’m sorry this happens, make sure you tell someone. GOOD LUCK. Dare to succeed.

You should first and foremost TELL. What your father did to you is wrong. Fathers are supposed to protect their daughters from things like this. I know you’re scared and you feel guilty. None of it is your fault, not one peice of it. I was molested my whole life by my father and raped from the age 11 to 19. Telling is very important. Tell your mom, another close relative, the police, a professional at a clinic… someone that can help.

Please if you need help and support reach out for it, don’t go through this alone. try http://www.rainn.org - they have an online IM with a professional that can help. Or you can call their hotline.

You can easily get the abortion pill, but it requires you going to a clinic. Due to the circumstances a victim assistance program will probably pay the costs plus any cost of counseling.

Please funmail me if you need help or have questions you can also message me on myspace hot_brdwy_diva

xox Sika

There are times in your life when you think that you need to listen to others to help you make the right choice. You need time to really listen to yourself. Do not let any of the suggestions on here make the decision for you. This is your life…you have to live with whatever the decision is that you make, no one else. You have some time before you need to decide. I am not sure where you live, but there are councellors that can help you, you don’t even have to give your name. Try “Birth Right” it is for woman in crisis pregnancies. Or maybe try the Kids help phone. I have been in a situation simular to yours. Good Luck! And remember the decision you make is yours to own, so don’t let anyone influence you into making the wrong decision. You dont want to have any regrets…whatever you decide for you will be the right choice.

Keep your head up!

I agree with flossheal please do not make your self miscary I do know that having a lot of stress can kill the baby, its a harsh thing to say, but maybe that might happen to you. give it up for adoption if your baby makes it to 9 months! just please, please do not have an abortion

I would seriously consider aborting, because incest brings on higher risks of major health problems in your baby, just do what is right in your heart, dont let anyone tell you what or what not to do, its not your fault

TELL AN ADULT THAT WILL HELP YOU, COPS,TEACHERS FAMILY MEMBERS. GO TO THE WEBSITE THE GIRL ABOVE GAVE YOU ONCE YOU TELL DON’T GO BACK IN THAT HOUSE . IF ITS WAY TO HARD FOR YOU TO RAISE A BABY YOU CONCEIVED THROUGH RAPE WHICH IS HIGHLY UNDERSTANDABLE I’D GIVE THE BABY UP FOR ADOPTION. GOOD LUCK AND SORRY FOR ALL YOUR GOING THROUGH DON’T LET YOUR FATHER KEEP RAPING YOU PRESS CHARGES OR LATER YOU WILL WISH YOU DID TRUST ME HUN

hey.. omg :O … tell someone.. mum - grandparents - relations - counceller - or go on a website.. as the people above have sed .! dont worry this is a really bad situation but just calm down.. you dad shoud not of done that as they are ment to protect you not the other way arnd..

ii understand abt you not wanting to keep your baby. but ii think you should either have a abortion or adoption ??

youu couldd keep it after 9 months + adopt ?

but dont listen to mee or anyone else it is up to you.. but do make sure youu tell someone.. and dont go back to the same place as him…

goood luckk

xxx