Baby on board? I'm young and early along. I need some major advice.

Why do you want to get pregnant so badly? I honestly hope you are not. You are too young to be having a child. I am not trying to be rude but give you a reality check. You have your whole life ahead of you and you want to get pregnant at 14? Are you ready for everything that comes along with motherhood??? How do you plan to provide for your child, or are you going to have your parents raise the child? Are you going to finish school, if so are you depending on your parents to watch the child, if not daycare is an option that costs over 400 dollars a week (and thats cheap) where are you going to get a job without a hs/college degree (other then Mcdonalds) that will pay you decent money with this economy? Are you ready for the stretch marks, the intense labor pains or csection? Most relationships at 14 years old dont make it, now add a baby on top of that your chances of staying together are less then 10 percent! Are you ready for post partum depression? Staying home while your friends are going out? Losing many friends? You look like your a fun outgoing girl, are you ready to give everything up, your whole life???

       I am just telling you everything that you have to look at, and I am telling you from experience that it is VERY VERY hard raising a child and I was 18 when I had my child, as much as you may think you are ready, no one is ready to have a child not even a 30 year old, and I had a lot of experienc with children and it still was not easy. You cant just hand off your baby and go home. If you are not pregnant I would seriously take a step back and look at yourself and see what is it you want a baby so much, you have plenty of time to have a child, enjoy your youth it will be gone before you know it.