Why are babies on my brain now?

Lately I really have had babies on the brain, however; I am so busy, love my lifestyle, and both my husband and I are happy the way things are. Is this a clue that I secretly want a kid, or is this just my biological clock. I’m 26 now and I’m really apprehensive about having children in my mid 30’s but with the way things are going, I think that it would be best to wait, any opionions on this?

Answer #1

I think it’s perfectly natural to feel that way. Are your friends having children? For me, the trigger was when my younger sister had her first child. My maternal instincs came rushing out. A baby would change your life but if you’re happy and secure in your marriage, and you don’t have any financial pressures, that change can be one for the better, even. I started my family in my late 20’s and if I had to do it over, I’d do it the same. Why do you think waiting is better? What’s your husband;s opinion? Is it a case of, if it ain’t broken don’t fix it? LOL. It’s such a personal decision when there are no mitigating factors.

Answer #2

what are you waiting for? kids are great. if its a boy,your husban can teach him to hunt,fish,play ball. all the father things. if its a girl you can teach her to cook,go shopping,dress her for her first prom.all the fun mother things.what about the grandparents,do you think they will spoil you kid?do you have any kids you ever watch and do you enjoy them?let me know.

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