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Are you supposed to bleed from fingering?

Why didn’t I bleed??? My Bf fingered me tonight for the first time but I didn’t bleed….and it didn’t really hurt all that much…..but he was only using one finger and he was going pretty hard….and he was using his middle finger….and was using almost all of it. Is it normal not to bleed cause everyone I talk to say that they did so I wasn’t sure…..so two questions: is it ok if I didn’t bleed? And are you supposed to feel a little different afterwards like “down” there?

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Answer #1

Yes its ok to bleed and its ok not to bleed. I think it depends on the force the guy uses while fingering you but if he ever uses more than one finger then you just might bleed and yeah afterwards you feel a little funny afterwards but you ‘ll be ok

Answer #2

yes it is okay to not bleed, it is not like a penis. where as a penis rips you, a finger does not. You are okay. As far as you feeling different. It’s mainly in your head, becuase you now that it happened, plus, you arent use to getting touched there.

Answer #3

It is ok if you didn’t bleed. Even if you did it would be ok. As far as feeling different it isn’t in your head its because you have probably never had a finger up there before and if that was your first time having a finger or anything up your vagina, you feel different or sore because in a way it stretched you out by very little. What you are feeling is normal and its just a little change you will get use to. Its just like when people have sex for the first time or even for the 100th time some feel sore after or the next day.

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