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am I wasting my life??

I am 19 and my boyfriend is 28. and when we get to the bed , we do it only one time and thats all!! when I try to say I want more , I see him yawning!! he says men get more tired after sex. what can I do??

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Answer #1

Sex makes men physically tired and with a busy schedule many guys are tired even before sex. “The ejaculatory release for men, and the inherent letting down of bodily tension, makes men physically tired.”

So grab him a cup of coffee before sex.

After the first time he won’t be ready for a little while, after orgasm he is much too sensitive to go at it again. (works the same for women)

Answer #2

When I was younger (I’m over 30 now) my then boyfriend could go a few times a day. He was in great shape. Now that I’m older, he doesn’t have the energy to go more than once and he gets tired after that first time.

So if you want somebody with more stamina, get him to do more cardio, yoga, etc or find a new man. Also if you’re not comfortable sharing what’s on your mind with him it’s not going to work very well. At your age, well, when you’re 27 he’ll be having his mid life crisis, going bald, and potentially shopping for a new 19 year old if that’s his thing.

Imho, it’s not a great start for a relationship if you’re not at least physically and mentally compatible.

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