Am I ready for sex?

really think about it because yu never know watz going thru his head. yu never knw if hez using yu to get what he wants…yu jux might regret it someday in yur life…yu should seriously wait till yu get married…I understand that yu love him a lot but yu dont know watz guna happen from this point of your life to 4 years from now…TRUST ME! on this my virginity was something special to me and I lost it jux because I thought I was in love..despite me still being with him I wish I could take my virginity back but I cant…and I suffered a lot because of that…I got pregnant and lost a baby because I was jux wayyy tooo young to keep it…and I lost it surprisingly…jux put some thought into it…I understand what yur feeling and what yur going true so if you wana talk jux fun mail me…GOOD LUCK!

he is 18 … we are going to wait until I am 18 to get married cause my parents wont sign the papers

I know he is the greatest guy … I feel like I dont desrve him ( I lucked out )

I talked to him last night and he said if we didnt until we got married that it didnt matter to him and he loved me and was sorry if he made me feel uncomfetable

Apart from the fact it’s illegal and he could get in trouble since he is an adult… Only do this if you really are ready, both for yourself and your relationship, sex changes a relationship, you cant go back to holding hands…

Only YOU can determine that you are ready for sex. If you were ready you wouldn’t question. There is no need to rush-if you feel like you really love him there will be plenty of time for sex.

I couldnt live with out him I love him so much … me and him have been 2gather for 3 years already I will never stop loving him

we would have safe sex and I realy do love him and we are supposed to be getting married … we would have to be safe he hates kids

HOW OLD IS HE?

Aoart from how young you are, I’m concerned about a number of other things in your life. You’re very unhappy at home, and you cant wait to get away from your dad. Be very careful that this isn’t the reason you’re looking to your boyfriend and talking about marriage already. In the whole picture of your unhappy life at home, your boyfriend’s promises of a future together may seem extra appealing.

Boys can also talk about engagement and marriage in order to justify the sex, for the girl’s benefit.

At this point, I’d be more concerned about your desire to be engaged, than your wish to lose your virginity.

You’re 15. And to answer the general question, yes you are way too young. Just cause you love him does mean you gotta sleep with him. Show him your love in every other way. Kiss him for no reason. Or tell him you love him. Cuddle just cause.

And you’re not ready. You’re horny. That’s all. You said when you let him finger you, that’s when you first wanted to have sex with him. Think about it. You first thought of sex with him, while he was physically pleasuring you.

Wait til’ he has a ring on your finger before you go any further than fingering.

Why is he in such a hurry to get married? Teenagers change so much in the last years before adulthood. Take that time to enjoy learning about yourself, and growing into an independent person. Take a few years so that later you won’t regret rushing into a marriage, and never getting the chance to know what its like to live on your own, to experience all the things you can do as a person, not just as a couple. Be a whole person, not just a part of a couple.

Teen marriages, I think it’s sad and much more likely to end in divorce. Ask yourself, why you want to get married so young. If its true love, then it will wait until the time is right, not just for one of you, but both!

ENGAGED?… your only 15? You really are confused! What is the rush? How old is he?

I’d suggest before even considering sex, learn how to spell the word virgin.

*Ask yourself: Is this the right person? The right time? Am I really ready? What if I got pregnant? Am I ready to be a parent? Do I know enough about birth control and sexually transmitted diseases? Have I thought about how I will react emotionally and how it will affect the relationship with my partner? Have I talked to my partner about STDs, birth control, and his past sexual history? All of these are very important questions. No one can make the decision for you. Lots of young people are curious about sex. Many have regretted having premarital sex, but no one has regretted waiting!

Even safe sex can lead to pregnancy. At 15, if you’re not willing to take responsibility for a potential pregnancy, you’re not ready to have sex. And I also think that 15 is too young to think about marriage. What is the rush? Why not remain a child for as long as possible and only deal with adult responsibilities (marriage and sex) when you’re actually an adult. Enjoy your childhood for as long as you can.

We are engaged he asked me 2 months ago :} I am confused