Am I pregnant??!!!???help me

Ok well me and my boyfriend of 6 months had unprotected sex on january 3rd it was my first time but not his.im 14 and he’s 16 about to be 17 on january 31st. I had got my period in december. My mom doesn’t know I had sex I havent got around to telling her. Besides she doesnt even know that it was just me and him at his house I told her it was going to be a group of people so she wouldnt be suspicious. But anywho when I had sex I bled like a lot but I dont know if all the blood was from me gettin my period and my hymen breaking or just my hymen breaking but when I went home I took a shower and put on a pad just in case. Because I still had a lot of blood down there. But the next morning when I woke up the blood was practically gone and then the day after that I woke up and it was gone completely I wasnt bleeding anymore. And my period has never been this short but the thing is I havent came on my period since december and he says that if I dont come on this month then im pregnant but im not sure though he said he didnt come and he sounded pretty positive when he said it and I know theres precum but everytime I ask can you get pregnant from precum differetn people give me differnt answers.so like I really dont know what to do I hope im not pregnant because then ill have to tell my mom but I havent even told her I had sex yet. By the way is 14 and 17 a big age difference ill be 15 on april 22nd.

Answer #1

Okay I’m not going to scold you like mom above. I think you should just hurry and get a pregnancy test now.

Answer #2

You absolutely can get pregnant from pre-cum and if you have unprotected sex at any time, you can get pregnant, and you can get pregnant even if it’s your first time.

That being said, it’s difficult to determine whether or not you’re pregnant yet, since at your young age it’s typical to have irregular periods.

Wait a couple of weeks and if you still haven’t had a period, get a test done.

Answer #3

For some people after the first time they have sex they do tend to bleed for longer periods of time. Everyone’s different. It’s a very big possibility that you may be pregnant just because it was your first time doesn’t mean your not. I suggest since you haven’t gotten your period to pick up a home pregnancy test and check, also as scary as it may be you should talk to your mom, and go to the doctors just to be safe. best of luck :)

Answer #4

First, why are you having unprotected sex with someone you have been with only 6 months, or why are you having unprotected sex at all Second, yes the age difference (14 and 17) is a pretty big difference. The thoughts.point of view, everything is totally different between these ages. What you think and feel now will probably differ significantly from what you will be thinking and feeling when you are 17. Yes, you can get pregnant any time you have unprotected sex. Guys will tell you that the sensation is so much different when a condom is used. Think long and hard (no pun intended) about this statement before you go though with. Ask him what the “sensation” of finding out he’s HIV positive or when it develops to full blown AIDS-what will those “sensations” feel like? Was it worth it? Also for you, consider the “sensation” of childbirth-tell me if that pain is worth 1 night of unprotected passion.

The penis does secrete “pre-cum” and even just rubbing the penis OUTSIDE of the vagina can result in pregnancy. Like the ole add for a hair cream said.”Just a dab will do ya”. Your periods will/can be irregular between 2-4 years, sometimes 5 after you start the first time. If you recently had your very 1st period (as mentioned in a prior post) not only are you irregular but the first 2 or 3 periods you do not ovulate. So there is no egg to fertilize. A broken hymen usually doesn’t result in a large amount of blood. Normally, it is just spotting and sometimes it may be a little heavier, but should not resemble a period. . It is also possible for the hymen to remain intact even after use of tampons or being sexually active. You say you had your period in Dec. but not when. If it was early in the month you could have been ready to start and having intercourse caused you to begin and that’s why you noticee it being heavy at first.
Remember irregularity and consistency during the first few years are normal. But, being as you can become pregnant with unprotected sex and you haven”t had any sign of bleeding since the bleeding following intercourse if you are concerned you should have a test done if you do not start within the next few weeks. Good luck!! :)

Answer #5

If you are this worried about being pregnant, then you shouldn’t be having sex, as you probably aren’t ready for children…however, because I did no different at your age…It’s probably just from the sexual act, and possibly caused you to start early, and then stop early due to the different situation your body went through.Wait 4 to 6 weeks and go get a pregnancy test.And don’t stress out about it so much…you’re gonna be fine no matter what…

Answer #6

I’m 32 weeks pregnant and with my second baby, both times Do to pre-cum!! So Yeah it can happen. And as far as the age difference thing just b/f, g/f no but to be having sex for you YES way to young. Having sex is a HUGE responsibility I think if your going to be doing it then you need to tell your mom and have her take you to get some birth control. that doesn’t mean not to use condoms because birth control wont prevent STD’s . Never EVER believe a guy if they say I don’t have anything unless you go with them to get tested and see the results your self. I think that if you are going to be having sex it’s important for both of you to go get tested together, it may be your first time but not for him so be safe!! AND TALK TO YOUR MOM!

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