Am I being stupid or should I be worried?

You said you dont want to take advice from someone that would be with someone that had another girl? I dont think you understood what I said. I didnt want MY ex back, I told you that! He had a girlfriend, but he still wanted me! I was the one telling her everything he was doing behind her back. It was all the truth!

Not to stir up anything but, I just find it odd that after 4 long years, she is still bothering him. That just doesnt make any sense. I mean when someone doesnt talk to you for that long, wouldnt you eventually just leave them alone? He has to be in contact with her for her to be so persistent. Think about it. I stopped talking to my ex, but he would ALWAYS do something, anything to get me to talk to him. Whether it would be to stop by my house, or IM me online. Then when I would tell his girlfriend, she would tell me it was all in my dreams, and that he would NEVER do that, because he loved her, and he hated me.

I also now that she pulled the same crap will all his past girlfriends.. I now this because I talk to them all. They said after they left him, she laughed in there faces and said that it was all a lie.. He dated her back when he was 18, he is now 22 and she still is not leaving him alone.. I LOVE HIM AND HE LOVES ME.. his cousin ever told me that all he does is talk about me and he never lies to his cousin…

I now this girl well she has always wanted him.. He is not going to visit her anymore we got it all fixed but he has to go to Illinio because that is where his father lives.. I trust him and he would leave me before he cheats on me.. I dont think I want to take advice from someone that would be with someone that you now had another girl.. no offense.. Well he is not going anymore. He was thinking about it but decided that he would just text her instead.. Do you really think that I would let my fieance got to his ex girlfriends house in another state… I would beat him in a coma first..

okay for one she lives in illinio and I live in new york.. Another he texted her and tell her that he does not love her and now she is starting with me..

I told her that if I see she comes anywhere near my man I am going to kick her teeth down her throut… she tell me stipid stuff like he wants to leave me for her.. And that he wants her to come to ny to see him in march.. which I now is a lie because if he wanted to cheat that bad. He could get a girl here in a heart beat… he would never cheat on me because he loves me or why else would he ask me to marry him.. thanks for the advice it really helped I talked to him about why he wanted to go to her house he said because he wanted to tell her in person that there is now way he going back out with her. he said he would be going alone he was going to take his father as a witness if she tried anything…

okay she is in him home town and when he goes back there she sees him and it brings up old feelings.. We got it sorted out.. she told me that it was all her and everything. It is my problem so I am have to deal with it. but I am not going to leave him because someone starting something with us. I trust him there is no reason for me not too. I mean we both use eachother phones so it is not like he is texting her or anything I mean he tells me everything…

if I were you id kick her fckn a55!!! but thats just me iam insanley jeoluse any girl that even looks my bfs way I wana pummle! but hes the same way and thats the way we are we both agree were jeoluse but it works for us. the only way to get it threw her head is to kick it lol but iagree with angel theres no reason he shud be pickn up the ph let alone going to her house tell him to ignore her and u shud tell her how you feel or show her if you were me. id gladley do it for you lol I hate b1tches like that that acknowledge the guy has some one but still comes a runnign like a dog in heat

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There is NO reason why he has to go to her house to tell her he doesnt love her! He can just tell her via phone, email, or text! How does she contact him, and why does he even give her the time of day? You have to wonder about that. If I were you, I wouldnt leave him out of my sight.

But thanks anyway for the advice..