How to stop being so worried that I'll lose my him to college?

Hello - I understand your situation. It must be very difficult for the both of you. The best advice I can give you is to ENJOY eachother while you are together. Enjoy every moment…because once he is gone, you’ll regret all of the unnecessary fighting (as will he). Fighting will just strain the relationship and cause resentment. Unfortunately, if you are both so far away from eachother, it will be more difficult to rectify fights effectively. Your worry and concern will always be there. We all worry about losing the one we love. However, you have to remain strong and continue to treat him with love and respect no matter how far away he is or no matter how apprehensive you are about him leaving. If you give it 100%, you’ll have to nothing to regret in the end. Those are my words of widsom. It sounds like your boyfriend wants to do what is best for the both of you. He loves you, but at the same time is aware of how difficult it is to maintain a long distance relationship. He wants to make it work, but he also knows how difficult it is for you both to be apart. You and your boyfriend should begin planning your visits. For example, you should pick specific days or weekends to visit eachother. You can drive up one weekend, and he can drive up another weekend. There’s also Greyhound! That’s how I visited my ex 8 years ago when he started law school. I sat on the bus for 4 hours roundtrip twice per month for over one year until I got a car! Seriously. You should also try to maintain contact once or twice per day. If you want to make it work, you can. No doubt. The distance will be tough. However, if you want to be together - no distance can come between you both. Good luck!