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hey I am 15 and I am in high school and I have a little crush on this boy and there is a major age diffrence he is 18 and im 15. I know that he wants to be more then friends. but he has a girlfriend and he is one of the guys that wouldn’t do the two girl thing. but him and his girlfriend goes to those break up make up thing.

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Answer #1

The fortunate thing here is that it’s a “little crush” and not an all-out infatuation.

There are a few things working against you here:

  1. The age difference - while it isn’t really a huge variance, it would still be illegal for him to get involved in an intimate relationship with you.
  2. He has a girlfriend
  3. If he leaves his girlfriend for you, would you be able to trust that he would not do the same to you?

If he was sincere about being with you, he would have already left his girlfriend and taken the time to work out the after-effects that everyone goes through after ending a relationship. Hopping from one girl to another is not a serious move - he seems to like to play the field.

My advice would be to stay away from him and find someone who doesn’t leave you with these doubts. Trust your intuition - if you have to ask if it’s right, then it usually isn’t.

Answer #2

im almost 18 annd my boyfriend will be 16 this yr. I know hes young, but it works for us. and he is very sophisticated for his age. but whats funny is that he looks my age while I look his age. I look younge while he looks older

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