How can I break off this affair with a coworker?

You’d think you would know better than this since it DID happen to YOU.

The forbidden can be intoxicating. That’s why you can’t end it. But I’m going to be honest with you. If he doesn’t respect his wife enough to not have an affair with you (regardless of their problems) what makes you think he will respect you? Also, if you can’t respect his marriage enough to not have sex with him…you are just as selfish. Adultery is the result of two self-serving individuals that need to satisfy their own needs. If you two start a relationship…you’d both be trying to satisfy your own needs. A real relationship is when the two are trying to satisfy the others needs. If you cared about him..you would see his need to end the relationship with you.

You should not deal with that what his wife stirs in the upstage. That is not your business. You fought your fight when you divorced. Do not want to fight somebody’s else fighting. If you enjoy the time that you two spend together then enjoy it in the future, too. If you are bored by the relationship you may tell this and break up with him.

Stay with him, break up his family, make him leave his wife and ruin his little girl’s life. Cause, hey–you guys wanna F each other.

Selfish, selfish, selfish. If you have to ask what to do, then you are lame and weak and deserving of whatever it is you get.

My advice to you is to get out NOW!!! I started a relationship with a coworker. I didn’t find out he was married until a year later. I was so in love with him by the time I found out. It was my first serious relationship. He was so perfect and everything I had ever wanted in a man. I knew the right thing to do was to let it go, but I struggled for 5 years to let that man go. The pain and shame I felt was unbareable. Trust me when I say it is not worth it! The best thing for you to do is to move on! You can NEVER get the time you wasted with him back and the pain you will feel is not worth it. Love yourself more than that. You are worth it. Think about how you felt when you found out your husband was cheating. I know its hard, but take it from someone who was young, dumb, and just wanted to be loved. It’s not worth it sweetheart. Move on!

Start looking for another job… My husband confessed an affair of 2 and half years of our 3 year marriage… it is the most difficult and deepest pain I have ever felt… It leaves me stuck, alone, confused, and I’m driving myself to the brink of insanety wondering how he could do this to me…

Is that the kind of man you’ve always dreamed up… Really? I know in my fairy tale prince charming was a walking penis but a knight in shining armour ready to defend our relationship… don’t do it! You deserve better and so does the wife.. this guy is trash.