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I have a 16 year old son, he’ll be 17 in october, he lives with his father in pennsylvania. I live in fl. He hates being there and has been wanting to live with me for a long time now, is there anything he can do because if his dad found out he was trying to do something, I’d hate to see the trouble that occur to him?

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Answer #1

I would talk to your lawyer. I know when I was 16 I had to appear in front of a judge with my real father, long story short, I looked at him told him, I know where you live, I go to school with your stepson, I drive my own car and I know where you work, if I want to see you I can. And the judge pretty much dropped it.

Answer #2

if you think for a min that he woud harm your son son for simply wantin to live with his mom then you need to get him out of that enviroment. it dosent sound safe you as a mom need to step up for your child and do what it takes to make him happy. get him out asap

Answer #3

take the father to court. and have the child come. the court will do what is best for the child. if he wants to live with you, he just has to tell the judge that. if you want this to happen, some feelings might get hurt, but it is in the best interest for the son. whatever he wants to do. or if he wants to wait just one more year, then he can just legally move in with you, he will be an adult and b able to make his own decisions

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