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My girlfriend and I are really close and everything, but I’m concerned about her parents, Her father is sexually abusive, he calls her cruel names such as sIut, b*tch, ect. He gropes her when he gets the chance and trys to kiss her passionately, And he doesnt care about her, he found out she was suicidle and he said “thats nice” when he saw she was cutting herself, he said “don’t do that, it makes me look bad” and her mom isnt much better. When her mom found out she was suicidle she said the same thing, and when she found out she was cutting herself, she supplied her with sharp objects like knives, razors, ect, to cut herself with, when her brother held a knife up to her neck threatening to kill her, she almost got kicked outta the house for it, I wish there was something I could do, but I live to far away so I can just support her, I’ve suggested her getting help from someone but her father lives closer to me, and she doesn’t wanna loose me so she doesnt want to get a restraining order on her father, I would really appreciate any help you could offer, thank you so much

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Answer #1

Maybe get her to come rounds ures 4 a sleepover and convince her 2 tell the police ,..maybe when she’s told the police she could stay at ures for a while ? ,… also I would tell your mum in private and see what she thinks should be done .. that would take some of the pressure off of you and it could help your friend aswell … dunnoe if thats anyhelp at all but its a tough situation and all I cud think of … :D good luck!!

Answer #2

WOW!!! this is tough situation! mom and dad seem like they’re sick. the only thing that you can do is support her and keep reminding her that suicide is not the answer. maybe try to convince her into telling someone even if its a therapist she needs help and she needs out of their house. or maybe you can suggest for her to move in with a relative.. be there 4 he. but please don’t try to andle this alone, tell her to get help!!!

Answer #3

personally? id probably beat her dads a$$ till her can only crawl and beg for forgiveness. but thats just me.

I do NOT stand for shit like that. whatsoever.

Answer #4

I will not act to help her without her permission, as much as I would love to get her help, I respect her and will not get her the help she needs without her permission.

Answer #5

TELL THE POLICE!!!

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