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About touching my girlfriend

My girlfriend and I have been with for 11 days and she will let me touch her anywhere and practially do anything to her. But a long story made short we went out 4 months ago for the past year and 8 months so it’s not like we need to be shy.anyways we have planned a lot of things we could do sexual since I became more sexual over the last 4 months and I made her more sexual as well. I want to really make her feel good but I don’t know what to do. She is willing to give me a hickey, touch my butt, give me a handjob, dry sex and pushing really hard on my dick ( so it bends and feels extremely good). But I can only do a limited amount of things to her and I don’t know how to do much…like I don’t know how to give a hickey,how to finger or grind very well. but at the same time I don’t want to finger her in her vagina and if she Asks me I will refuse without a doubt, because of the past. In the Past I fingered her once and told her I didn’t like it and didn’t want to do it again. But at the time I didn’t know how to say no to her so she asked me again one day in person and I did it and hurt her which I was happy about because I didn’t want to do it. But I don’t know what I should do to make her feel good. I have no problem win touching her butt, vagina or boobs but I won’t finger her, eat we out or have normal sex with her. What should I do to give her pleasure?

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Answer #1

Just do what you do now, you might pick up things along the way and its not bad if you don’t like fingering, I’d never do it, I don’t think I’m still wondering I I’d ever want a handjob, do what you feel comfortable with and your girlfriend should accept that you don’t want to finger her.

Answer #2

Yer your a bit of a hypercrit. She gives you handjobs… But you won’t even finger her? man up, even if you don’t like fingering her (I dunno why you wouldn’t..) at least do it to please your girlfriend.

Answer #3

umm what so bad about finguring?? I dont think its bad a majourity of guys do it and lickings not bad eithier.. I thin k your immature (no offence) I just think you dont like making a girl cum..

Answer #4

Ok when your making out with her bite her lip a bit but be gentle. Then work your way down to her neck kiss and suck her neck, shoulders and keep going down to her boobs hold her waist while you kiss, suck, lick, and nibble on her boobs especially the nipple. And if she has anything on her covering her vag just rub it and ask her what she likes if you don’t feel comfortable with anything else. But eventually you will need to do those things to her. It seems like you aren’t sure how to finger or eat her. Just research it a bit and find out what feels good and expeiremnent on her cause anything feels good when your turned on. :)

Answer #5

my boyfriend wasnt shy on any of it lol, he never knew what I liked but the first time I put his hand on my boob and told him to squeez harder he went crazy!! he would always push we against a wall and take off my shirt and suck on my boobs and push them together and he always asks my if he can f* me between them, he enjoys eating me & he asks if he can finger me but I dont answer and he tries to put his hands down my pants but I never let him intil I lost my virginty and we havent been alone since then but dont be afraid about messing around with her boobs, I think pretty much any girl would LOVE that and wait till your ready for her vagina

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