Abortion?

I am so against abortions. If you didnt want to be pregnant you would have used some kind of protection (condom, the pill…) so with that NOT being done, you ended up pregnant. Why get an abortion when you had full control over your actions? Getting an abortion is murdering your child. As far as opinions, you cant live your life for anyone but you. People are going to have something to say one way or the other so dont worry about that. Although youre not married, you guys can still do what you have to do for the sake of your child. Honestly, marriage doesnt hold people together. Married people still leave, cheat, not take care of their kids…so that part is whatever. Thats just my advice, do what you feel is best for you…but make sure you make the decision that you are happy with.

This is not a question of judgment. you already shot that one out the window. Please don’t kill your baby.I said a prayer for ya’ll.

I got pregnant when I was 19, and had an abortion. I think I was just scared of what my family would think mostly. but I know I wasnt ready, and I dont regret my decision. but its all up to you, thats something that every person will have a different opinion on, there is no right or wrong thing to do.

I personally would keep it. I’m pro-choice, though. If you want to get an abortion then go for it. If you’re only doing it because you’re afraid of what everyone else might think, in my opinion that’s the wrong reason to get an abortion.

Well I wouldnt have a abortion just because you want to wait till you get married! that is a living thing inside you!, And really who cares what people think of you being a young mum? as long as you take good care of you child there is no need for anyone to look down on you. you sound like you have a good relationship and have money coming in you can make things work!,,I was 18 when I fell pregnant! YES I planned it because I wanted to be a young mum … I had my baby at 19 -at 20 I married my man and now at 21 I have a gorjus baby girl who is 2 a great job a house and the best hubby I could ask for:) trust me being a mum is far from easy its real hard work! but its the best thing that will ever hapn to you :)

Uhmmm well this is VERY serious, and I think that you should discuss this with your partner (as 91jchevy87ec said), not post it on here honestly…

Honestly who cares if you do get judged for this? You will be… you would if you were 30 also… Your always being judged, so why is this any different?

But if I were you I’d keep it… I think abortion is wrong unless your a victim of rape… Which you clearly aren’t…

Also are you still of term to even get the aboirtion? Also getting abortions decrease the chance of you getting pregnant in the future, do you want to risk that? Theres soo many things to condiser…

&& with that being said I really hope you make the right choice and not something idiotic… =\

Do what you feel would be best, it also depends on how long you’ve been pregnant.

This is a serious decision. Discuss it with your partner.