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Why doesn't my boyfriend please me in bed?

My boyfriend is 50 and I am 22. When he ask for head he gets it, but why don’t he ever offer me head. When we have sex he finishes in less then 5 minutes, and pleases himself but I never get pleased unless I’m getting head from him. I don’t know when I cum when I’m having sex… or is it ok not to cum during sex.

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Answer #1

What do you mean you don’t know when you cum during sex? Do you mean you do not know how long it takes you to cum during sex? Have you ever cum from just sex before? Many women cannot cum from sex alone (some women never have an orgasm at all). If you can only orgasm through oral sex, and your boyfriend (not matter his age) is not willing to give you the pleasure you need, find someone else.

Answer #2

If you are 22 and your b/f is 50, and the situation in the bed is that you wrote, then do not say a word - but find a 24-30 yo male who will satisfy you or openly or secretely, that depends on the nature of your 50 yo b/f.

Answer #3

You should confront him about this situation. I am 24 and my bf is 39 and we have a wonderful sex life, but it didn’t happen, UNTIL I told him what I wanted. Sex is a big part of loving relationship, it’s important, so tell him what you need. Give him some time to figure it out. And if it doesn’t work, I would say, don’t stay with him…there is no reason why you should spend the rest of your life unsatisfied.

My 2 cents.

Best of luck.

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