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How do I know for sure if my 2 yr old son has been molested?

Ever since my son was about 6 months or so a family member has said very inappropriate things to my son and about my son being sexy, fine, and attractive. I’ve told them the comments where not something you say to a child no matter their age and of course we had a fight. A few weeks went by and I started to notice odd things when I would take my son to the family members house. The family member would take my son into there room all of the time away from everyone else and shut the door, or they would hide toys in their shirt and tell my son to find it. And I would always stop it when I saw it right away. But recently my son has had to got to their house while I’m away at work and when I pick him up his pull up is sometime on him backwards or his pants are off of him and I find out he has been in their room. I have a very bad feeling about this and my son has started to tell me that the family member has played with his pee pee, and I’m starting to freak out every time I have to leave him there, and I’m afraid this might happen to my younger son. I’m not sure what to do or how to handle the situation.

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Answer #1

Okay first off you really need to stop taking your son to that person’s house! There is obviously something very very suspicious going on, and for your son to say that is very alarming! You need to sit down with your son and ask him questions. Give him a Barbie or Ken doll and ask him about how the family member plays with him in their room and ask him if the family member touches him and have him show on the doll where the family member touches. You could always get an investigator by calling CPS. DO NOT keep taking your son to this family member! Confront that family member as well!

Answer #2

Keep him away from these people!!!! What do you mean your “starting” to freak out every time you have to leave him there? You should have freaked out long ago.

You don’t have to leave him there I don’t care what your situation is don’t do it!!! Be strong and stand up for your son………..don’t let anyone manipulate you!!!

Set your foot down now….don’t wait. Please for the sake of an innocent child. If this continues it will mess him up for the rest of his life.

Put a stop to this right now!!! You should be pressing charges, but you probably wont…….at least threaten them with it, and keep your son away from there at all times.

Answer #3

I totally agree! You should atleast threaten charges. And the Barbie doll idea is very good.

Answer #4

I don’t understand why the mother is only now starting to be concerned. And why she doesn’t open the door to go see what’s going on in the bedroom???

Answer #5

The child molesting “sick” type of people are usually very powerful manipulators and good liars. Please don’t let yourself be sucked into to their wicked ways or be made to feel guilty for not visiting them. Now is the time for you to find all the strength you have and don’t let this happen. Protect your son at any cost. Do this and you won’t regret it. If you need any help or advice at all please ask and I will do my best I promise. If they lived here close I’d go over there and kick their butts I guarantee that too. I hate those kinda people and it wouldn’t be the first time. I was at a public pool last summer…………this guy (my age) kept talking to little girls……….I’m talking 3, 4, 5, 6 yr olds. He made a comment to me that “these little girls have nice bodies”. I couldn’t take it. I hit that piece of $^*! so hard it knocked him down and he was bleeding. Needless to say I got thrown out…….no problem…it was worth it.

Answer #6

If your gut feeling is telling you that something is wrong then it probably is. If you see a behavior that seems odd then it probably is. If you’re child tells you that someone has played with his pee pee.. WAKE THE HELL UP!

And people.. she’s just now starting to be concerned because it’s a family member. You gotta understand. The last person you’d want it to be is a family member!

Don’t be stupid mom. Don’t let that person come even close to your kids. I don’t care what kind of job you’re holding now. NO JOB IS IMPORTANT AS THE SAFETY OF YOUR CHILDREN.

Answer #7

NO JOB IS IMPORTANT AS THE SAFETY OF YOUR CHILDREN. That’s what I meant to say but got carried away.

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