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I recently have broken up with my fiancee. We decided we need time apart (long story). But after some time we want to reconnect and try again. But for now, we are nothing but friends. He has come over a few times and we both want to work on it and get together again. We miss each other very much and we both love each other more then anything. I really hope that it all works out.

But in the mean time of our break up, I started to see a friend from work. We went on a few dates that went so well. He’s amazing. We have way more things in common then my fiancee and I did. I feel different with him.

The problem is I want things to work out with my ex, but I want to see where things go with this new guy. I feel like one person with my ex, and a compleatly different person with the other guy. I like who I am with them both. The worst is, that when Im with one of them, all I can think of is the other. What do I do? Try to work things out with my ex and stay friends with the other guy? Or move on from the ex?

Please help. I need any opinions on the matter. I’m so confused andd depressed.

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Answer #1

well this really has to be your choice…

make a list of things you like and dont like about them

pick out traits etc from each and just pick who ever is more compatible with you

be warned though…the new guy might dump you… and the fiancee wouldnt like to be second choice (no one would)

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