How to get over someone you love?

Ah- these things are never easy….the matters of the heart… the things that keep us up at night. Ay, ay, ay! Sorry…

The thing is that you’re well aware of the situation. At one point, it seemed as tho he was yours, even though you guys didn’t label it as such. It felt like a relationship. You fell- hard- for him and you believed that the feeling might be mutual. So you took that chance and confessed your feelings. Hoping that it would be mutual- but it wasn’t. And that’s where the first punch came in. His reason, by itself, was a red flag- I mean, c’mon dude! What guy wouldn’t want a young, beautiful woman next to him for the rest of his life? Isn’t that what they’re all secretly wishing for, right?

Obviously… that’s exactly what he wanted. Despite the fact that he told you that the age difference was the ‘reason’. That made little to no sense. He pretty much straight out lied. It’s evident. He’s married to someone who’s within your age group, right? Had a child with her! Yea.. what a liar!

I know that this is hard for you- but please… try to move on. It’s not so easy you say, and I totally get that because… you never got that closure. In a way I think that tweeting him would finally put a stop to your pain. I feel that your heart needs to reach out that one more time BUT your mind is asking you,’are you crazy?’ The dude’s married with a kid. What do you expect him to say?

It’s a tough place to be in. I say… IF you believe that tweeting him and getting whatever response you think you’ll get is going to ‘set your heart free’, then do it! If you think that it’ll give you that much needed closure in order to move on, most definitely do it. I honestly don’t see what you have to loose. You already know that he’s taken. That he can’t be yours, and that even when he had that chance, he chose to pass it up. SO.. with all of this said..

It all boils down to you being able to say to him, “Thanks for lying about the age difference being the reason for why we couldn’t have been a couple. Obviously you’ve married just that.”

Maybe that’s what’s going to bring you that closure and will help you finally move on. Good luck!

You always give good advice whenever I post a question here. I appreciate it.

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Thank you! I appreciate it.

Thank you! I appreciate it.

Yeah tweet him, you may tempt him to cheat on his wife and daughter and destroy that loving family with your selfish wants…you never know his wife may see the tweet and want revenge and you may get to fight her and do damage physicaly instead of just mentaly.All in all it was time ago and from what you write he seemed the gent he should have been, you just need to move on and let this family try to be as happy as they can…i am sure they do not need a jealous person ruining what they have already.move on and leave this poor family alone.