How to turn someone down without hurting their feelings? (read more)

Hey how do i turn down someone without hurting their pride or feelings?

Ok here is my story, so i have been dating talking too a few girls online and in local, and it’s been going good, i have met some really nice people… Well here is what happened i set up a date with one girl it fell thru, so i told her “ let me know when you will be able too do it, i understand how busy you are and that is fine but when you want too hang out just let me know and we can do something” so i get a call Monday night, i and she said i am free on Sunday, so i say fine that works for me… Well what i did not tell here is on Thursday i had set a date up with a different girl for not this weekend but the following,

And thought oh well that is fine i will go on both and everything will work… Well i did not expect too enjoy myself so much… She is awesome funny, sweet, smart, she is also beautiful but i knew that already… And now i have another date lined up with a different girl, and i am sure she is great, but i don’t want too hurt someones feelings…..

Also what worries me, like yeah the first date was fine but what if the 2nd date is horrible and than i am stuck with no one.. or what if i go on the other date and i like her even more… and i have too tell one that,

I think i just really really screwed up by talking with too many girls, i am not a player, I just had a really bad break up a month ago i guess rush into dating and went at it too hard…

I am a sweet guy… i am nice honest and all of that fun stuff…. But i guess i landed myself in the soup this time… i don’t want too hurt anyone.

Thank you for your time.

Answer #1

just tell the other girl the truth. Playin’ with peoples feelins is not a good thing. n’ tell her soon because you don’t wanna get her feelins n’ hopes up. she’ll understand your situation, maybe not at the moment but later on she will.

Answer #2

These are casual dates, not commitments to relationships… surely there’s a huge difference. The whole idea of meeting people is so that you can figure out if you like someone enough to date them exclusively, in my opinion.

And while no-one wants to hear that they’re just being given a test-drive, you should try to be fairly open about what it is you’re doing. The other thing to keep in mind is, you’re looking for something to “click” with another person - and just because it feels like there IS a connection, don’t take for granted that it’s mutual. So while you’re deciding, “Ahaa, this is the one!” she may be deciding the opposite.

Answer #3

telling people the truth is always a good thing, they say truth hurts and it does but do so life

Answer #4

coming from a girls point of veiw i would go on the next date and see how it goes. dont be to greedy and try playing them both but either of yous are in love at this point and it will be more easy to decide. i was with my boyfriend 4 months and loved him so much. he broke my feelings by being to greedy so think about the three of you and the affect it will have . :)

Answer #5

just be blunt and tell em.

Answer #6

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Answer #7

In my opion i think theres no good way to break up with someone without hurting them it always hurts. But the best way is to tell her why you think you should break up. Do be honest but try not to insult her over and over try and be soft and kind.

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