Is it forbidden to let someone touch you 'down there' if you feel uncomfortable but you want him to touch you there?

Like you want your boyfriend to touch you’down there’ but you are little shy and when he’s going to touch you there you refuse to but then you let him

Answer #1

Um.. I think its really up to u if u want him to that… not sure though

Answer #2

If you feel uncomfortable then you shouldn’t let him. You might want to, but you might not necessarily be ready. It’s your choice at the end of the day though

Answer #3

Forbidden isn’t really the right word. It’s illegal for him to if you explicitly say “no” so make up your mind. If you feel uncomfortable in any way then maybe you’re not ready. Explain it to him and he should understand. If not, then show him the door.

Answer #4

you are 13, stop it, go be a kid

Answer #5

Ok, do not take this the wrong way. You are 13 years old and this should be the last thing on your mind. Also, being 13 is to young to be doing such things because you are not mentally capable of handling it like you said you feel uncomfortable but let him do it to make him happy. If this boy truly cared about you he wouldnt mind waiting. When I was your age I tried some of the same things and now that I am older and married I regret not waiting for my husband. The actions you do now will determine what other boys and future men think of you. Another thing, a man, one who is mature and has a sense of direction do not like women who started having sexual partners or fooling around at young ages… Be 13, dont worry about boys and trying to make them happy. Be a kid because once you start doing adult things alot of the time you have to end up growing up alot faster than intended and you dont want that trust me. So be 13 have fun. go to the mall, skating, play sports focus in school because you will have plenty of time later on for this crap!!

Answer #6

I’m not doing it,i dont even have a boyfriend. I’m just really curious,trust me!

Answer #7

Well I believe it is sinful and you should not be doing it or wantting to.

Wait till marriage.

Answer #8

Give it time, if you want him to touch down there but your uncomfortable, maybe you just want to be touched down there not by him but by someone else that makes you comfortable, OR, your not too far into the relationship yet to give him that trust that you need, just give it time:)

Answer #9

At your age, I believe your a tad too young, though it all depends on what you think is best. Though consequences are along the lines and regretfulness. Does this boy truly care for you? Or is he just using you to get one thing, and then leave you behind. Any of these situations could happen and you could feel in a terrible position, if you grown attached to him, and he doesn’t want to pursue afterwards. Yet in this sense of nature, I’m not gonna offend you in a way, and yet it’s your decision to go along or say like “hey, I rather just be friends”

Answer #10

you should just talk to him seriously about it, if he thinks by you saying that your frigid well he can go and f**k himself you dont need him and he proved he’s a waste of space, you shouldnt do something that you dont wanna do trust me :) xx

Answer #11

absolutely not

Answer #12

Is it yoir first time? Or are you just uncomfortable with that person? Either way, if you want them to go ‘down there’ & and you feel its right, go for it! Enjoy it & dont be nervous lol

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