Does my boyfriend even miss me?

okay unsugarcoated version: I have been through this saaaaame thing. dont believe that hon. he is not “busy” all the time. Guys make time for things they want to make time for. so here’s the deal, he either wants to hang out/ get to know other girls or hes bored with the relationship ooor hes trying to disconnect emotionally from you for reasons unknown. take it from someone who has been through the same thing with a guy i have been with for four years! believe it or not, guys get bored with the same girl. they aren’t meant to stay in monagomous relationships. you must keep things new and exciting and spontaneous at all times to keep him interested. you also must pull away from him sometimes when he wants to hang out. then you should be busy! look hot and post pics that you know he will see. even if its with a couple guy friends. guys like a challenge! if he wants you, he will then come back around! i know mine did!! hope i helped=) let me know if it works=) ~ GypsyMystery~

Woah i’d talk to him about it..i hate when my boyfriend talks to other girls..but try not to freak out..explain to him how you feeel and see where that goes.

Just talk to him about it and if he doesnt care maybe its time to take a break from eachother

Tell him to get his act together, if he can make plans with another girl then why not make plans with you as well.

He is not interested in you at all, and he’s too cowardly to end it with you. Just don’t bother contacting him any more. Does he ever call you or message you? How many times has he made the first move to connect with you this past month? You haven’t seen him for a month. Is this a long distance relationship? If not, I’d be reading the writing on the wall and finding a new boyfriend.

Well from what you wrote in you’re post, it sounds like he doesn’t want anything to do with the relationship. I agree with all the answers that were given and it sounds like he is cheating on you. Its best to find someone else. I wish you luck and don’t fall for any of his excuses. He doesn’t miss you. Guys like him tend to play these kind of games anyway.

If he is ignoring you, you should also do the same…no point in crying for somebody who doesn’t value it

If he is ignoring you, you should also do the same…no point in crying for somebody who doesn’t value it

If he is ignoring you, you should also do the same…no point in crying for somebody who doesn’t value it

Basically this, if he doesn’t even try to spend time with you then he isn’t worth your time. He should want to see you and try harder. I understand work, but I’m pretty sure if he wanted to y’all can find a time to meet.

if he cols u or msgs u or tries to cntct u everydat then he does if nt may b he is bzy or lst intrst in u

he should miss u

I think making plans with another girl is a red flag. I understand caring about someone, but if he is seeming to be avoiding you and making plans with other girls, do you really want to take that? Sometimes men do pull away because of things going on in their lives. Guys don’t typically love to spill their feelings and emotions and a lot of the time they enjoy being alone, doing their own thing, and being away from us girls. Relationships can be exhausting, especially for the men if they aren’t very sensitive or emotional. It can feel like work to them.

I think if he is making plans to see other girls you need to talk to him about it. Maybe she is just a friend, and maybe yeah, he wants to have his own friends and spend time with them. You might just need to give him a little space when he withdraws from you like this. But overall, you need to ask him to be honest. Without accusing him, just ask outright if he might be interested in seeing other people, or if he really is just interested in you. If it bothers you, you need to clear the air. In the end it might be better for both of you even if it does end up in a break up.

Well, if he is making plans with other girls and avoiding you competely, it might be time to give each other some space to figure out your feelings. A friend of mine was having the same situation with his girlfriend and it turned out she was simply tired of being with someone she never got to see anyways.

Though it is difficult to hear, it is A LOT more fun and A LOT easier on the heart and mind to be with someone you can see or at least speak with and who shows interest in you and what you’re up to. Guys are idiots. They make time for what they want when they want and they generally don’t go out on a limb for those things they don’t really give a rip about.

If a guy is really interested you, regardless of his work schedule or what he wants to do with his friends, he will make time for you.

I know it’s hard to hear, but it sounds like you need someone who is actually worth your time and who thinks you are worth theirs.

Untrue sometimesI can stay with the same girl forever. They get bored with me. But just confront him and ask him about it. Give him no room to dodge the questiion

I’m going through the same thing with a group of friends wondering if they know I’m there or what not, but I’ve found If you stop talking to him he will realize what he’s missing.