How do I get a guy to want me back?

We met through a friend a few weeks ago. He’s a College boy. I work in a Call Center. I’m 25, he’s 28. He knows I like him, and I’ve been told he likes me. We’ve messed around a couple times since we’ve met. I’d like to have more of a relationship with him, like go out on dates and what not… but I don’t know how to strike his intrest. Can someone please give me some advice?

Answer #1

well, dressing sexy and comming onto them usually does the trick! but if your not comfortable with that or want to try soemthing else thats fine. maybe try finding out what he likes, if its a new movie, conncert, place, resteraunt, ect ask him if he’s be interested in going there with you on a date, and it might be good to be specific that its a date, because if hes keen to go out with you, he should take you up on that offer! maybe also find a time to tell him in person that you like him, as a lot of guys dont really tend to pick up womens body language

Answer #2

I’m perfectly fine with doing that… the problem is: He’s friends with my homeboy, and we’re not wanting the homeboy to get jealous. I’ve hooked my homeboy up with my girlfriend, and now it should be all fine and dandy. I’ve asked our mutual friends if this guy likes me, and they’ve all said, “yes”. But he’s not showing it. He’s a Gemini and I’m a Cancer, he has two sides that I need to figure out.

Answer #3

tell him you want to lick his teeth. and MEAN it

Answer #4

Act like you don’t care about him and flirt with other guys in front of him. Don’t date other guys or mess around with other guys because it will get back to him and I am sure that will make him not want you faster than anything. Just play hard to get and pretend like him breaking up with you hasn’t effected you at all…the first second he thinks you are drooling over him still his ego will shoot through the roof, but if he has a chance to miss you he will realize he wants what he can’t have and guys come crawling back so quick when they think you are moving on! Good Luck!

Answer #5

Sorry you said how to make him want you back, I misunderstood, but my advice still stands. If you show him less and less attention he may try harder to get your attention!! Once you start talking again make sure he knows he has to show you he likes you he can’t just tell you because actions speak louder than words! He may be inexperienced and doesn’t want to say or do anything stupid in front of you, so he may just be tryin too hard to play it cool and coming off like he doesn’t like you, when really he probably does a lot and you probably intimidate him!

Answer #6

making hime jealous start hanging around one of his friends when hes around

Answer #7

You say you have messed around a few times since you met him? Stop it. Why should he build a relationship with you when he gets the perks without having to work for it. At this point you will need to ask him out on a date. Make sure you have a good time (talking and laughing). You need to get him to want to spend time with the whole person you are. If he is only inerested in a physical relationship then you have to accept that that is all he will give you. .

Answer #8

why bother, sweetie? Just move on to a guy who wants to eat, sleep, and breathe you. I promise you, once you don’t want a man anymore, you become irresistable to them.

Answer #9

come on sluttyy,but trust me not to slutty or that will become your rep. try to talk to him alot and give him hint. maybee go see a movie with like a group of 4 and sit next to eachother, but make sure you do things he likes to

Answer #10

no dont parade yourself around tht makes you seam desperate

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