How do you get your 11 year old daughter to act a little more more mature instead of acting so childish?

Answer #1

Shes 11. While its important to teach kids responsibility, respect, etc its also important to let them be kids and enjoy their childhood. At 11 years old its extremely normal for your daughter to be childish…shes still really young, hasnt hit puberty, and is just acting her age. Be sure to discipline her when she breaks rules, disrespects you, etc. But in the end let her be a child and act a little childish while she still has the chance.

Answer #2

She is a child. You should let her enjoy her childhood as such.
. She will cause you enough heartache when she starts to think that she is more grown up than she really is. . Kids are great, brazen teenagers not always so - especially if you push them to behave as though they are more mature than they really are, ….. . ….. and their boyfriends start trying to treat them as though already are that mature. .

– Best wishes - Majikthise. .

Answer #3

wow, im nearly 15 and still act like im 5, i want to act like a kid while i can before worrying about adults, on the other hand when i need or want to be im very mature and for the most part make good desicions, let her be a kid because when shes older your going to want her to be that little girl she used to be, dont worry about her maturing fast.. although you do need to teach her everything such as school is meant to be taken seriously, always act right in public, have manners and treat everyone with respect.

Answer #4

So true. We’re children for such a short while, and grown-ups for the rest of our lives.

Answer #5

I wish I had that problem, I have a 10 yr old who thinks she is 15, I wud rather have her actin like she’s 5 instead of 15

Answer #6

Shes only 11 , shes not even a teenager yet ! yes you have to teach your kids respect & make sure they will be responsible & mature as adult but for right now, just let her be the kid she is

Answer #7

PUT HER TO WORK!!! (Irony,,, Let her be a child).

Answer #8

PUT HER TO WORK!!! (Ironing … Let her earn her keep)

Answer #9

spanking time joking XD id say no more suger or cathine also give her mature activitys like………….. soccer ? tennis? im 19 and im imatureeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :D

Answer #10

I was a bit shocked knowing my 11 year old girl texting with her boy friend. OMG!!! I did not realize how fast time flies!

Answer #11

well take it from my 11 year old view, somtimes we actually do it to annoy our parents but i guess u can confront her if none of the other suggestions work. and actually i wish MY mom wouldnt act so childish!

Answer #12

Sometimes children act older than they are if you treat them older than they are.

Answer #13

at 11 she is still a child but if u really want to take her to a Holocuast Museum show her how cruel the world is and if u do u are stealling her innocence from her. u need to understand that she is just a child and that when she becomes 13 then u can ask this question.

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