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your cherry getting popped

hey I kinda feel freaking stupid for asking all this but when you have sex for your first time what will the boy think or say about it not popping cause im 14 and a virgin and my boyfriends 16 and hes had sex before. how bad does it hurt your first time and and normally is the girl on top or bottom !!?? I know I sound so stupid but I want to be prepared and ready and know all I need to know.

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Answer #1

first LEARN about sex learn about contraception, birth control, pregnancy and sti/stds because hes been sexually ative before you can get an sti or std some of which are painfull and uncurrable so use a condom it would also be good to double up and go on birth control as for your cherry, they wont notice at all and your hymen may have been broken years ago your cherry (hymen) can be broken from variouse things sex toys, fingers, horseriding and some other sports so it could have been broken long before your first time do take some time to learn about it first because it would be horrible to be a 14 year old kid with an unwanted baby and a limited future dont do anything your not ready for or comfortable with will it hurt? it might a bit if your hymen is intact you might expirience a little bleeding to make it less painfull just sty calm and relaxed and focus on breathing out top or bottom? its your choice many people have sex in the missionary position (man on top) the first time but you dont have to, you can choose any position you like but do learn about sex before you have it talk to your mum, get a doctor to prescribe the pill to you and use a condom!

Answer #2

Seriously you guys are very young so I wouldn’t recommend having sex at that age but I can’t tell you what to do… And if you do have sex WEAR A CONDOM!!! Many people aren’t having SAFE sex and getting stds or stis so BE SAFE!!

Answer #3

dude, im 14 and I think your to young to have sex.. I mean you couuld have sex anytime of your life when your older.. so save it.

Answer #4

“what eva yu do dont say tsop because if yu do you will regret it=]”…that is the stupidest thing I have ever heard!!! Wait until you find a guy that actually cares about you, and doesn’t just want a place to stick his fun stick. When you’re OLD ENOUGH and your body is MATURE ENOUGH you can have sex and it’ll feel great. You’ll know you’re ready when you stop referring to it as “getting your cherry popped.”

Answer #5

I am 13 and have had sex once but I am just going to tell you this it hurts for a little bit but once yu have being going for a bit it feels great trust me

oh and if yu just explain to the boy that it is yur first time he will understand and go slow but what eva yu do dont say tsop because if yu do you will regret it=]

Answer #6

For most people the pain is minimal or non existant so dont worry. But thte pains only half of it. Do you love him, does he love you? how long have you been together? Are you even ready, do YOU even want to. Do you know about sti and pregnany prevention?

The guy is usually on top the first time. Always remeber its your desicion and you can stop it at any time!

good luck

Answer #7

I think if you dont feel comfortable wit it wait a few more days or weeks or moths I wouldnt say years but make sure hes not in the relationship only for your body I would make him wait just 2 make sure but sometimes you have to think about the boys position to sometimes boys arent ready and it hurt for them to im 12 but I know about this I learnt it in 4th and 5th

Answer #8

You guys are way to f**king young what the hell are wrong with people now days!!!You guys are making huge mistakes trust me

Answer #9

ive had sex and idk if it popped and the sheets were already red so idk, help me?

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