Do you think we're meant to be?

Hi, Ok, I have been experiencing odd feelings for a man for about 1 year. I have known him for 7 years. Whenever I look at his pic, or him, I get a feeling in my stomach, and I get flustered. he was in the same martial arts class as I, and was always messing around with me. like, just running his fingers through my hair, talking to me, giving me pointers ect. I have a really trustable friend, she has this thing about her, where she feels things about people, and she said she got vibes from him that he thought we were ment to be, or that that he knew there was something more between us. the other day, I went to visit him for the first time in lkike a year, we were catching up and I told him my grand pa died, him knowing my family, said it was for the better since he missed my grand ma so much, since she died, then he went on to say they were soulmates, and he kinda looked at me funny, he said the part about the soulmates quietly so noone else in the room heard. know I have been dreaming about him, on aver age once a week, things as simple as us hanging out or as complicated as us making out. now, my questions are, am I dreaming about him, because he is thinking about me? do you think we were ment to be? and if not to both of those questions, how do I stop thinking about him?

thanks for you help everybody!!

Answer #1

uhm… I don’t believe in soulmates…a lot of those feelings are just hormones

When two people “fall madly in love”, the brain’s pleasure centers are activated causing the release of few chemicals-dopamine, pheromones and serotonin. These chemicals are directly responsible for excitement, increased heart rate, lack of appetite and sleeplessness.

real love is just a decision… a commitment to care about someone else…the brain is a powerful thing…being in love is not out of your realm of control just say NO…

Answer #2

well, rock papersissors, I respect your answer, and I would like you to consider the fAct that, why we only ever get all of thoses feelings around one person, or maybe never at all? but I do and have considered this chemicalb reaction, but I think it only happens because it is the only way two people could know they were ment to be? however I do thank you very much for the time you took to respond to my ? with your honast oppinion!

Answer #3

I say give him a shot, but dont fall to fast.. :)

Answer #4

wielkopolski, do you think there is a chance that he is my soulmate

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