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Is saying yes to guys just a rebound?

im 14 and I have guys askin for sex. the weird thing is that I just got out of a long term relationship and im hurt. is the feeling yes just revenge or a back up? I really dont know. so should I or should I not? good idea or not?

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Answer #1

Do you actually think these boys like you, because they want to have sex with you? They are only going to use you. Does that not bother you? You dont give a boy sex just because he asks! That really isnt saying much about the kind of girl you are. What do you think you are going to gain by being so easy? A bad name, an STD? How about getting some self respect. They dont want you, they only what your putting out, and girls like that come very cheap.

Whether you realize it or not “ALL” women put out advertisments through their words and actions. Men are always looking at your advertisments and attemtping to interpret them correctly. BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ADVERTISE FOR LADIES, FOR YOU JUST MIGHT GET YOUR WISH!! If you advertise a “slut” then do not expect “respect” to answer your ad. Today’s fun is tomorrow’s responsibility!

Answer #2

these guys are asking you for sex because they want to use you, you shouldn’t give in to their stupid suggestions. they know that you’re hurt from your last relationship, and they know you’re vulnerable and that’s why you’re the easy target. don’t give in, have enough respect for yourself to say NO.

Answer #3

basically like tinatodder said, they are using you, you have to say no or else, you will be so use to saying yes that it won’t phase you. I hope you see you are way too young, and sex is a huge step, that can result in a child, goodluck. funmail with any questions. :]

Answer #4

NO.

I agree with mella your way to young.

I mean if you want revenege how about you dont and say you did.

either way do you really want the rep of a slut/skank sex isnt just a simple way out of things and if you given to guys that just makes you easy and it will get around ya know guys gossip to

Answer #5

not good idea! you r wayyy too to young!

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