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two of my best guy friends are flirting with me, its exciting, but it has a dark side, one of them is really tempermental, over protective, and jelouse, and tonite one of my other friends was messing around and making fu and of my hight (as usual) and then pulls my hair (jokingly) and my jelous friend (lets call him ..I don’t know…bobby) anyway, he punches him in the sholder, inother words, telling him he better stop or he was gunna go all ninja on him (mind you it was after my martial arts class, so he had the ability) and im afraid that one of these days hes gunna hurt someone and get himself into trouble because of his temper over protectivness and jelousy…and to make matters worse I like his bestfreind…who is the other guy in this “love triangle” (we”ll call hime…I don’t know…john, as in john doe)… and its like when ever im around “bobby” and he gets in a fit of jelous rage, its almost like afterwards I have a fear of being close with my friends, especially those who are guys, because im afraid he’ll get jelous and lose his temper and do something stupid, like a gaurd dog protecting his steak (wont let you near it or he”ll bite your leg off)..and I dont know what to do…as nice and cool as he is, I like his friend, and I fear he may be upset when he figures it out, that he’ll either treat me diffrently orget so jelous and angry he’ll either beat up “john” or wont let me near him…I DONT know WHAT TO DO!!!
Sweetheart, be lucky that “Bobby” cares enough about you to want to protect you. I don’t wanna say this rudely, but he may not even have feelings for you. Let me tell you a story mkay? One night me and a few of my friends were at the basketball gym, and My best friend,Paula, called a really jerky guy’s girlfriend ugly. And he said, “Well you’re fat.” and so my other friend, Julian, goes “Well..you’re anorexic.” and gave his hair a little tug, and when she let go, he got UP in her face and said “YOu better get the eff off me hoe” So Julian pushes him and he pushes her back and she pushes him, and then he pushed her again and she almost fell. Then an amazing friend,Greg, got Hew(mean guy) in a chokehold and said “YOu gonna touch her again? Huh.you gonna touch her?” and then he let him go. And Greg had no emotional feelings for Julian. He just didn’t want his friends hurt. Maybe your problem isn’t a problme at all. Ask them if they like you, simple as that.
I am sorry I know he is your friend but you have to let him know you all are just friends and you dont appreciate him acting as though you all are together in that he gets too overprotective. If you all get into a relationship or the friendship stays at this rate, you are right he may injure someone innocent or even you. So after you let him know that his overproctective behaviour is not something you are ok with and he treats you differently thats just his business. Just try to distant yourself from him, you like who you like and the only one that should have control over that is you. He does not have you on ball and chain, therefore he cant determine who you go near too or talk to. Oh and you said its exciting so I am guessing you are flirting back, yes there is nothing wrong with that but with his character you may be leading him on, and thats just more of a reason for him to try to make you his or feel the need to get angry when you interact with other guys.
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