What if I like my best friend but she's a girl?

I have a problem. I like my bestfriend. Thats not the problem tho. She is a girl and so am I. I dont’ know what to do. I am bi but she isn’t. I keep getting closer and closer to her and its getting harder and harder to handle what should I do?

Answer #1

My advice is don’t do it with a bestfriend… Can either ruin your friendship or boost it.. Most get ruined.. Hint on things. But don’t follow up unless she asks!!!

Answer #2

If she’s not into girls, then you might just scare her off. Does she know you’re bi? How does she feel about it?

Answer #3

Im also Bi, its hard cause I am starting to have feelings for my best friend.. she aint bi but you should tell her its better cause if she excepts you shes a good friend =)

Answer #4

Hi: Welcome to funadvice. Your problem isn’t as unusual as you may think. From your profile 1951 till 2007 makes you in your 16th year. Your body is still changing a lot. And part of that change has to do with becoming more than being. It is normal and natural at some time in puberty to be curious about the oposite sex. You are becoming a woman, yes but for right now you are in the process. Another thing that happnes to both guys and girls your age and stage of development is that you would like to examine and compair with each other. If the occasion arrises and if you are comfortable about it you can breach the subject with your best friend and go beyond the telling you suggest show and tell. No touching nessary if either of you are not comfortable with it. My other advice or comment is that it is OK to feel like you may be BI at this stage. In time you will probably settle on one or the other. But some prefer having there cake and ice cream too. Good Luck Gino

Answer #5

hey if you don’t at least let her know you will never know. and it’ll eat at you. how bout you set her down and talk to her even if she’s not at least you got it off your chest. I’m bi so I know how you feel.

Answer #6

I am bi. And she knows i am! I have been bi for about 2 years know and just got out of a year and a month relationships. Im not bicurious! i know what i like.

Answer #7

Hey, I am in the ecxact posision as you ecept my friend does not know I am bi. I think you should just tell her. I agree, it’s hard…

Answer #8

yh im in the same problem 2 she know im Bi tho aswell and I told her I kinda like because it does start 2 eat you up and she woz ok wiv it but no shes like proper all over me alwyz huggin me touchin meki sure im near not needy but I dano if she likes me because she says she not bi and stuff so yh tell her you nevr no

Gud luck bbz

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