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And then you can change your password again, lol. No I would recommend you let him read a few things, but do not give him your password or yield to him. It’s your privacy that matters here and if he cares about you, he should be able to trust you. All will be well for you two :).

Let him have it in order to be wide open about your life…once he knows you have nothing to hide, he’ll get over the need to “be in the know”…and all this will be like yesterday’s news.

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Once you start digging for things, you will always find things you don’t like.

Yes that is a bit possessive… Just tell him that you respect his privacy and don’t go through his e-mails and that he should give you equal courtesy. So long as you’re truthful, that should be enough :).

Well put it this way, if he ask me about the messages, I will tell him specifically what it is NO LIES.

but to have someone read word for word your convo with someone else is like sitting down talking to a good friend of yours and have someone STARING at you two and observing you when it has nothing to do with them. awkward

I believe that if you have nothing to hide, let him see it for himself. It will make him feel more comfortable with you. I think that “He needs to respect your privacy” is a stupid statement. For one, He’s your boyfriend.. Which probably means your dating him to see if you can work out for a future. That’s why most people date. If you want a guy to be in your life in the future, you need to let him into your life now.

Well me and my girlfriend have each others passwords and really their isn’t no privacy needed with emails and myspaces and such because you shouldn’t be messaging or doing anything that he/she cant read. so me and my girlfriend dont have this problem we have each others passes and don’t have a reason not to trust each other :)

He should respect your privacy, but I think since you wouldn’t give him your password, he thinks you’re hiding something. =D

I wouldnt be mad but it would make me curious.